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rose @rosesz

how to get over a guy?

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Ray Ks @rayimrayy

Why can’t you get over him?

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rose @rosesz

i guess he was my first love and i tried so hard to get over him. i really did. but i still care about him so much while he doesn’t care how I’m doing at all.

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Ray Ks @rayimrayy

LISTEN TO ME. He was your first lover and you can’t get over him because subconsciously you are still exciting that you had him in your life. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS TO WORK ON YOURSELF! Start meditation please! Work on yourself and realize your worth. Don’t make yourself weak and caring for someone who doesn’t care. Is the person worth your tears? Your energy? Your soul? The answer is no. He left you cause he wasn’t meant for you! You deserve better.

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I can feel you dear… just focus on your well being for now… try new hobbies focus on something else. If its too hard and lonely you can talk to anyone here… people here are very comforting❤
Take care

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Ray Ks @rayimrayy

Also did he end the relationship?

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rose @rosesz

we just drifted apart and he slowly left

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Ruchir Soni @ruchirs98

You need to cut him off completely and focus on your work/study whatever it is you’re doing. It’s just that when our mind is idle we think about the person we love. You need to keep your mind busy for a while. It’ll be tough initially. But slowly you can see it working. Everything won’t go away easily, but it’ll soon. I’m a guy and I did this to get over a girl very recently. It works both ways.
Let’s connect if you want to know more.

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Anonymous

How did you meet him

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Anonymous

Get another guy

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Get along with some other guy

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Anonymous

Some alcohol and a hookup would be very helpful I guess

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Anonymous

Hangout with some single friends and check out new guys. But still it doesn’t mean that you will get over…but it will somewhere heal you. And try out new things

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