How to deal with toxic dominating in laws ? They have literally ruined my life . I m lost . I feel dead since I got married . My husband is the best but he is also being controlled by his father and mother financially because his father is a wealthy man . His father gives him everything yet nothing . I have had a different life before I got married . I had the most comfortable and luxurious life before I got married . But after I got married I lost my job due to the pandemic .I have spent most of my savings on my wedding . Due to this pandemic even my husband who is into business has nothing to offer as he himself is struggling . I cannot believe how my life has turned upside down in one year and now I have to even think of getting basic stuff for the house . My husband has always been very supportive of me and he loves and respect me . But he is still under his dad financially and can’t even stand for himself or for me . His parents insults me on my face and demands respects for themselves. His parents wants us to sit and stand on their command . His mom always dominates me and tell me how I don’t know shit ! They have no clue how my life used to me before and how independent I have been my whole life . Only thing I wanted from them was love and respect . At times when his dad wants to be nice with me his mom gets jealous and we can see that clearly . I have moved out of my comfort zone just to make them happy by making special food desserts etc . Because they always tell me how they wish their daughter in law to make tea for them and serve them . I grew up in a different culture where my parents have never treated me like I need to cook or clean n do household work . I have always been working woman . It’s not wrong to do household chores but it wrong when my mom in law said that I can do the dishes but not her son ever ! Because he has always been a prince in his family. Hello !! Even I have been a princess in my family but my parents have always helped each other and same me and my husband believe . They have a old mentality where they think that a man has to dominate his wife . Wtf ! I cannot believe these people !!! I am not someone who usually take shit ! But just because I love my husband I don’t want to create dramas but todayy in laws and us had a big argument where they were the only one talking and suppressing our voices . We might not be always right and same goes to them ! But no ! According to them they are all elders and they know everything! I have so many things to write but cant! Please guys somebody help me because I am going crazy and I am so close to lose it !
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