How should i deal with people assumptions and misunderstandements of me should i ignore that or what ! I really have problem when it comes to expressing myself any advices ?
baba, when you are asking if you should ignore them or not, you already know it. you already the answer, you have all of them within you.
the only person at the end of the day who knows you and your intentions the best, and can pick out the beautiful and true side of you, is YOU. so why even consider anybody elseβs opinions or perspectives.
moreover, if they love you obviously never have to explain them. but if they donβt why even care? any case, only explain to yourself, if there is ever anything to be really explained.
Well its because iβve been told that it was my fault and that i should express myself more and not be the quite person i am but i guess ur right if someone loves you heβll know the real you but really the way they act with me is driving me crazy theyβll be like ignoring me and then be like youβre this and youβre that ur different and i canβt say anything about that because everyone will be like itβs in your head .
i totally understand. you are really a soft-hearted person, and trust me thats beautiful. ofc it will time, but try to be as good to yourself as you are to others. please you really require the same amount of love and attention you lend to others. i hope tom has warmer sunshine for your heart.<3
it will take*
and also, please voice it out, you can always, nothing is just in you head. even if it is, let it cme out, remember the right person is nver ever going to judge you.
Thank you for your response and your kind words this really means a lot to me β€οΈβ€οΈ
Have a nice day
u too! <3
and take care beautiful!
I have passed from the same situation
Believe me today I regret doing that in past always justifying everything to everyone
You should not think of what others believe just ignore completely. Slowly they will clear their misconceptions on their own . Dont think that it will spoil yr image and u should justify yr actions only yr opinion about yrself matters the most!
But I think those who do this they also know that their is no misunderstanding and our actions are normal but just for fun or for bully they are upto this