How much freedom can be given to a girl in her teen?
silentboi @5ha7ja
Ig as much freedom, that’s given to a boy.
Not too much… You can hang out with friends but can’t have sleepovers or sex lmao
Maybe sometimes cloths restrictions too
You have to come back home early and can’t leave at night and rlly can’t hangout with guys in night but can do it in day.
I am the parent
Okk… Well I’m 17yr girl rn. And ik that maybe me saying something rn will be difficult for u take it and feel free to disagree but I’m saying this all cuz i think that teenagers needs to know it.
But don’t control her. Restrictions should never be equal to controlling her cuz then she will rebel a lot. Obviously don’t let her drink or do drugs but don’t give her clothing restrictions. Let her wear whatever she wants and let her go out in world alone (obviously not too late in night cuz it ain’t safe for her either).
Teenage is about exploring… let her fall down if she makes mistakes but u make sure that u r there on her side always. Cuz that’s how people learn from their mistake. It’s a very ripe age and she needs to learn how to handle world so that in future she don’t struggle. Let her know that her career comes first and pls don’t force her to take Science stream if she doesn’t wants to. Respect her decision. ALSO, now this might be sensitive to you but tell her about sex education. We (teens) listen a lot about this and so many things are misleading information. Don’t hesitate to say the words cuz it will be awkward for her but she needs to know it to keep her body safe.
Last but not least, be as her friend and not her parents. Compliment her once or twice a week/month cuz due to puberty, we get insecure about our body and we get body shamed a lot of time by public. Don’t let her get that… TELL HER THAT SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL.
Hearts, XOXO
From Anonymous.
Buddy i said that DONT give cloths restriction. I am sorry but u misunderstood something maybe.
Oh vow. Thanks a lot. It’s a great help.
:D @pratio
Teens thrive for freedom! Haha
I think night curfews should be there.
Making her friendly with you so she could tell you about the kind of friends she has.
Going to school should be compulsory.
Spending rules should be there.
All of this would be with no negative feelings if it’s communicated right and if it’s conveyed why the restrictions are there.
It’ll be a positive relation between you and her :)
Thanks a lot. You make lot of sense.
Sanket @sanket
Freedom means responsibilities, if one understands this then all amount of freedom is waiting for them
Perhaps, in out teen years we only care about ‘NO INTERFERENCE’
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
I think more important to give them support and freedom is always there right
