How do you feel when you find that your father is cheating on your mum. You can’t also tell her as she can’t bear this pain.
Everyday I found something dubious on my father’s phone and now it’s all over my head.
I can’t sleep, sometimes oversleep
overeating becomes normal
…😓
Alon @r3v0h
I’ve known that my dad has been cheating on her and I’ve kept quiet for the last 3 years,
This is my take, go ahead , tell her if you want the family to break apart, once you tell her, nothing is going to be the same and your father may or may not resent you for the rest of your life, just an example.
If things are normal at your place, and your dad is pretty much the same and hasn’t changed behaviour wise, I recommend you to not take action on this , Why?
Because first of all, I’ve realised that it’s his life, marrige and all that is norms built by the society to tie down a couple to eachother for the rest of their lives and it’s human nature to fall out of love, I’m really sorry that you have fallen victim to this but yeah, hmu if you need anymore clarification, it’s a very lonely experience, you really can’t talk to anybody, I’m here if you need help. Please don’t listen to anyone here saying go ahead,she should know and all that bullshit.
Alon @r3v0h
It’s a part of human nature I said, and your point is plain stupid , I’m sorry
Third person here
I agree with @r3v0h , its really common to fall out of love and its so difficult fir us Indians to get divorced and be with the person u want to because then you’re shunned by the society. People say in western countries the divorce rate is higher, but its the same in India. Its just that we are supposed to be quiet and act like everything is normal even though everything is falling apart. I can say this from experience as one of my friend found out that both of her parents were cheating on each other and still kept mum because they pretended everything to be normal at home. Who want fights and separations, when u can be mum and happy?
I think you(post owner) wont understand this now, but I would suggest not to disturb the equilibrium at ur home. Just focus on ur life and soon u would move out and wont have to face it.
I can’t even begin to imagine the pain you are going through. More strength and power to you🧡
To save my home If I have to be selfish then i will be selfish.
if i say i’m bearing the pain idk is if he is cheating my mum knows that but it’s like they use to fight for that person long back after that all vows given by father to my mum not to meet them but he use to meet and ik he is in touch wid them now but the way he acts at home but i don’t want my mum to know if i say she is in doubt but trying to hold family my dad is not like that he cares for all like we have a good bond but sometimes that thought of his meeting secretly frustates me like we are happy family but this one of the flaw and i i’ll ask him in future y he did this or maybe it happen soon idk how to feel but the bond we have is so good we do that happy fights and all while walking i put my arms on his shoulder we are more like friend idk but i’ll ask him for giving this pain this is like a hole in the heart that pumps but dk whenever it’s gonna make u die…
Alon @r3v0h
I exactly know how you feel , it alright, don’t ruin the bond you have right now, I too will ask my dad the same thing later on in life , you need to bear this heavy weight on your shoulder all alone. Be strong.
hey thanks buddy is it same wid u ??
U guys really understood what m going through and I’ll will also ask one day why he did this. we were also a very happy family and his nature at home is the same as earlier but I feel like I don’t want to face him.
Thanks a lot, guys !! At least I can share my feeling here.
Alon @r3v0h
Yep, going through the same thing
Sad btw ur age ?
Yep facing is bit hard it’s like easy to say as we see in videos tv movies we feel like it’s easy to ask or question but in reality we understand that how one thing is connected to too many parts that will ruin many things…
