How do you deal with easy attachments? as in if I talk with someone for a week I get attached to them just like that… Is it a bad thing?
It’s bad
I’m currently depressed I accidentally found myself getting attached to someone again after 2 days!
I just want to rip my heart out now to prevent it from being ripped later
Try learning more about your attachment style. There are 4 different types of attachment style. Sometimes the way we attach with people could sound wrong on so many levels but it has its roots elsewhere. So where you stand rn is because of all the patters so far. It could get tough at times because we internalize that certain things are bad because they seem like it, but understand why is it that way could really help in situation and help you understand yourself better. You can easily take a quiz online and you’ll learn more about it. Sending you love.
I lost you after couple of lines there… Can you please elaborate
May be try taking a quiz to learn more about your attachment style, it’ll help you. That’s mostly what I was trying to tell.
Okay thanks
I also suffer from this. I think it has to do with your childhood, a particular moment where you felt scared and alone and needed to cling onto some form of hope and comfort. It’s similar when your older. Your memory is triggered, thinking to that traumatic moment and you think the world is crumbling if they don’t stay with you.
I hear people saying its somehow related to my past but to be really honest my childhood was really normally and I never felt the need of someone as in i never in particular felt lonely or felt left out so it’s tough to understand what’s it about.
