How do I stop looking intimidating or mean ?
Yesterday only a good friend of mine told me that she was scared to talk to me and I was like what !? and then she added that her first impression of me was wrong and that I’m actually sweet . And honestly this isn’t the first time someone has said that to me and I wonder why is it this way ? Is it because of my appearance or is it because of the way I carry myself and I don’t seem to understand what to do about it ? I love making friends and I genuinely love being around people ( if I’m not sad or having a bad day ) and I want them to come up to me and talk . I don’t want to be the “ hard to approach “ but a sweetieeee!!!
It’s quite the same with me. People think I am hard to talk to Or mean. But I’m actually the opposite and they only can understand that if we talk. Till then, let them assume😌
Why do you even want to change people’s opinion about your first appearance in front of them? Just let it be, let them think about you, just remember that if someone has problem with you, it’s their problem not yours. You are best in the way you are and the right ones will accept you because appearance doesn’t matter in anything except judging, i love it when people judge me based on my looks bcoz they make it easy for me to eliminate them from my list of friends…
Wooju @wooju
Hey!! Don’t worry i would say you need not change just that you haven’t met the person who accepts who you are!!! I have a very arrogant friend and trust me I would sometimes think why i am even with her but it never stops me from being a friend with her i know her temper i can understand her and I still choose to be with her!! Never change for anyone not everyone’s gonna stay with you till the end!! Let them go to the one who actually wants to stay will never have a problem
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