How do I forgive my love who forgot me during her success?
Basically we were great both striving in our respective fields . She achieved a major breakthrough.
Just after her breakthrough the frequencies of her calls reduced ( I can understand she required time to get prepared )
I was shaken when i came across an success post of her through social medias where in I wasn’t even tagged leave apart a mention .
I stood by her during all downs of he life . a person with no complains and no demands for the past 6.5 years .
I stopped receiving her calls completely and got blocked.
Before leaving the town she wanted to meet for which I refused.
I went through an emotional turmoil for a month .
I received her call a few months later where in she regretted that how abruptly I ended things and wanted to celebrate her good days with me .
She did not have any idea why i did that . I explained it to her and she accused me instead of apologizing.
I introspected and one might feel that my jealousy has overpowered my love but that is not the case .
I made that clear to her as well that I was extremely happy and proud of whatever she was able to achieve .
She lost virginity to someone she dated for a while after abandoning me and has come back now and is ready for a fresh start after realizing how she messed up.
I still love her and had made plans mental/physical with her & vice versa.
I watched her give up on me and complete the plans we made getting complete with someone else.
This will never go from my mind.
How do I move away from her?
She is not right for me I do acknowledge but my love I don’t know why is still overpowering all her wrongs.
Sanket @sanket
The same post again, seems like you are disturbed quite badly ha?
disgusted to be very frank.
Lost 12 kgs in 15 days.
Heartbreak hota sambhal leta.
ghatiya si used feeling aa rahi hain.
Sanket @sanket
I understand, is situation ko is tarah soch ki tumne apne relationship mai saare efforts daale par samne wale ne wo nahi samjha, and ab jab chize balance out hongi tab wo bhi negative phase jhelegi ya fir use tumhari kadar samjh aayegi.
Its tough to deal with but embrace yourself
Its because you loved her with all your heart. I’m sorry you had to go through this. Maybe her success was overwhelming for her. Maybe she has taken the wrong decisions in her life. It’s not uncommon. People often do forget the ones who helped them reach the top. Trust me it is really difficult to live happily with someone who has broken your heart. Its better to stay away from them. You have taken the right decision.
I know it is really difficult to forget someone who meant the life to you. It’s not your mistake. Take your own time. There is nothing wrong. Cry your heart out. Share your feelings with someone you trust. Don’t keep it within yourself, it will take a toll on you someday. So let it out.
Then pick yourself up. Life life for yourself. Focus on you and nothing else.
You have to give a comeback right?
Don’t think of anything else. Your career should be your prime target now.
If you are angry or sad or whatever is going through your mind right now, channel everything towards the growth of your career. Once, you achieve your career goals, you will definitely feel better. The one you deserve will come to you in the right time. You can’t reach success easily right? So think of all your heartbreaks as your setbacks and overpower them to achieve success. The path is difficult, but the destination is beautiful.
You can do it !
Take care.
All the best!
trying to channelize everything in the right direction.
but a feeling of disgust has set in and it is eating me.
Just believe in yourself pal. Trust me, your happy life is waiting for you. But for that you have to end things the right way. Yeah, it is really difficult to fill that void, but she is not the one for you. Move on man.
Everything is gonna be okay.
Take care of yourself. Eat healthy. Move on with your life.
Focus on what you want to do with your life, not what you want to forget.
Letting people go once your successful is the most cheapest thing to do in life…if she did it… then don’t hurt urself for her…take it as challenge and succeed in life…and for god’s sake do not go back to her…I am feeling sorry for you but life sucks sometimes
did you ever think that what if its not love and just the attachment you had with her because you were with her for past 6.5 years or maybe i am wrong but did you ever thought about you and your love for yourself and what about your mental health , i know you are hurt but babe its the right time you forget about her and trust me it wont be easy for you but in every step you take and if wanted to give up on moving on from her think about the moment when she was using you and trust me healing takes time ,it does but just to give you reality check she was not the one for you and i know you have spent 6.5 years with her and given all your love,care etc etc to her but now its time you should also give yourself some love and know that you dont deserve someone like her , you deserve better, someone who will also be there when you feel bad when you want someone by your side . and we are here when you feel low or down supporting you
