How can he easily give up on us? He used to tell me how much he loves me, but why can’t he low his pride to fix our relationship. I love him to the point that I’m willing to accept the fact that he already has a daughter. I’m willing and ready to be a stepmother to his child even if we haven’t met. How can he be so selfish? How can he doubt my love for him? I’ve been lowering myself for him, to the point that even I have my problem I always put him first. How I wish I can unlove him already and learn to love and put myself first again.
Simran @st1199
Hey!
What exactly happened between you two to understand the problem area and maybe I can be of your help. 😊
Honestly, I don’t know either, last time I remembered he just send me a video talking about something but I told him that I don’t know what he’s saying because I just started to learn his language a few months ago. Then he just keeps on ranting and ask how can I don’t understand him, and keep on asking me if do I have an interest in our relationship. For almost 5 months I keep on asking him to call every time I have a panic attack, every time I feel alone because my father died and I want someone to comfort me but he always has his reason, so I always end up comforting myself. I just being honest to him that I don’t have some time to learn his language because I have to work two jobs to live and help my family. But he’s so selfish to just say yes when I told him to just end up our relationship without even thinking.
Simran @st1199
I am sorry for your father, I’m sure he is in the best place right now. 😇
Also, it is selfish of him to be like this. But, at some point, you would have understood all this but you would have let it go because you love him and all that. Sometimes we end up doing things we know would hurt but still do, in that case, we shouldn’t blame the other person but ourselves for doing and ignoring it.
You should not be back with him and try to move forward. If she literally has anything for you, he’ll come back.
firstly make sure that whatever you are thinking is what it actually is, try to understand the problem from his side too. some people are with many doubts but once when you prove your love to them they will truly and honestly love you and stay loyal to you. but if he doesnt understand you, then i dont think he deserves you
Hey!
First of all be proud of yourself that you are so brave handling everything.
Secondly you have given all to the relationship and it still didn’t work so just leave the man behind, it may take days or maybe months or more than that but you shouldn’t go back to the toxicity he’s been making you go through. And it’s coming from a person who’s been there. Anyone who’s convincing you otherwise, maybe has never been in the position of always submitting to someone needs. You don’t need to be a rehab for broken people. Self love is important and it will do great things for you once you love yourself and know your worth.
Lots of power and courage to you. You will come out of this soon. I promise. Hope you live well loving yourself more each day
