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Anonymous

Hii…
I am preparing for civil services and I want to ask a question.this question is repeated in my mind again and again but i am not able to find a good answer about it and the question is if I cleared the exam i will take some one seats who are all also working with the same feeling as I am doing.i know it’s a very dumb question.but this question irritating me from past few days.

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Anonymous

If you will not take maybe another person will take.

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Anonymous

Yupp.👍🏻❤️

@trucker

I wish you all the best & I hope you crack it in first attempt.

Don’t prepare for more than 3 years though & start a career because preparing for IAS has very low odds of success & some people waste their 20s preparing & then lose a chance of half decent job as well

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Anonymous

Thankyou dear , i will keep this in my mind.

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Your have a valid question. But as you said that you’re studying with a goal in mind, you’re doing it for yourself right? So is another person. So if everyone is doing something for themselves then you should focus on yourself too. It’s good that you’re thinking for others but you should put yourself first.

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Anonymous

Hey…i love your explanation. can you give me some more explanation about this?

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Ummm…more explanation like how??
I’m sorry I’m unable to understand what you’re asking for 😅

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Anonymous

I am asking for the answer,some extra explanation so that this question will never come in my mind again.

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

I think what i answered is already enough. You should think and focus on yourself first. Because I’m not sure if anyone else gonna think about you, like you think about others. Remember what viru sahastra budhe (a.k.a. Virus) said:- “Life is a Race, Agar tez nahi bhagoge to koi tumhe dhakka markar aage nikal jayega”. And as i said that it’s a good thing you’re thinking about others but it’s not the time and situation to think about the others. Because for you there’s only one person you should focus on, and that’s only you. So, i guess this is enough of explanation for you to start thinking about yourself first and do good in your upcoming exams.

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Anonymous

Thankyou so much dear❤️

Shalin Gupta @shalin99

Your welcome.😊

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Anonymous

I am soo glad that you are preparing for the toughest exam. In this competitive world, you have to find your own path and you are doing it. At least think that If you clear the exam you may and you can bring a positive impact on this society. You are just thinking too much. Please try to cool down and concentrate only on your exam.

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Anonymous

Thankyou dear for giving me this explanation.

mandeep @ad007

I will say survival of the fittest. It’s basic rule of nature. You have to if you want to survive

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Anonymous

Yeah ofcourse. Thank you ☺️

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