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Hii everyone… I wanna to listen ur thoughts regarding my story which im going to tell u …
So there was a guy whom I used to like and one day I confess my feelings to him and get to know that he also likes me…so we started dating but after 2-3 months I lost my affection regarding him… Our thoughts were totally different…but still I choose to remain in a relationship with him… But after sometimes a told him to breakup bcz I feel really guilty towards him and I can’t able to give him that love and all also I don’t want to give him more hopes bcz I already lost my feelings… He was a nice guy… I still feel guilty and sorry towards him and ik im a really bad girl 😔 now I wanted to ask me how’s he doing but I don’t know that I should ask him or not bcz im not in that position to talk to him after doing all such things…

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Anonymous

Maybe u can get some idea about his wellbeing from his social media.
You can contact common friends.

Anonymous

His ig acc is private and I’m not in contact with any of his frnds

Anonymous

Then if u really want to talk, u have to talk directly… No other option.
But dont u think it will be trap… means u will talk once… then he will obviously be angry, u will try to make things better… This will be never ending cycle

Anonymous

I think u r right… I should not talk to him… it will make things more complicated

Anonymous

Take it easy dear. You can talk here. Or contact on ig

s

Loosing feelings for someone eventually is NOT WRONG. sometimes people don’t live up to your expectations and it’s okay to let go. If you want to know how he’s doing, it’s okay to text, you don’t have to be friends to show someone you care for their well being. Just tell him the same, I texted to know if you’re doing well and nothing else. Hope this helps:)

Anonymous

Thank u so mch for your kind advice… I appreciate u for understanding me

s

We male are really very slow with feelings, we just can’t easily move on and hence he has a valid reason to be angry. On the other hand, you tried to not hurt him, you have tried to handle the things. But have you been very clear during the breakup? Hope you must have clarified.
Breaking up doesn’t mean that you both can’t be friends anymore. It’s good to catch on to him, as about his whereabouts. Go apologize to him and sort out the things. A friend is as worthy as any relationship.
If it is possible to be friends then don’t disconnect.

You can just call him and ask how is he doing . It’s not a big deal to give a call to your ex. You can still be friends

Anonymous

Please don’t mind me when I ask this in the nicest way possible… Did you lose affection for him because he was a nice guy?

Anonymous

No it wasn’t like this… Our thoughts r literally so different… We never agree woth each other on any topic

j

This person was important to you. Therefore you care about them. I think it would be helpful to evaluate if it would be worth checking up on them. Yolo baby :D

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You have done nothing wrong, you are in fact someone who is being honest about her feelings, you have actually done both urselves a favor by not prolonging a non existent relationship. You can can talk to him or not about his well being… his happiness is not your duty its his… give urself a break