Hii
A year back I told my parents about my boyfriend and they did not agree to it .
They had their valid reasons and I was convinced by their reasons.
I also love him
I can give him up for my parents
But I donโt know if I can ever think about another man in my life .
My parents are already searching for a guy and I donโt know what to do
Iโm confused bcos each time I feel like choosing the other one .
Idk Whether to hold on to him or listen to my parents bcos they they donโt like it .
I love both of them
And in the process of choosing between this
I feel very guilty on whichever decision am trying to make .
This must be really hard for you but will you not fight for your love? Iโm not saying to go against your parents but atleast you both try to convince them. Marriage is a big step, will you be happy with someone else, will you be able to love them? If not youโll not ruin your own but the other personโs too. Try to explain them that you wonโt be happy. For parents, their childโs happiness is the top most concern
Marriage about your futureโฆI think you should choose someone whom you truely love and wonโt regret doing it in future. Firstly think about yourself and how it will affect your future.