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Anonymous

Hii
A year back I told my parents about my boyfriend and they did not agree to it .
They had their valid reasons and I was convinced by their reasons.
I also love him
I can give him up for my parents
But I donโ€™t know if I can ever think about another man in my life .
My parents are already searching for a guy and I donโ€™t know what to do
Iโ€™m confused bcos each time I feel like choosing the other one .
Idk Whether to hold on to him or listen to my parents bcos they they donโ€™t like it .
I love both of them
And in the process of choosing between this
I feel very guilty on whichever decision am trying to make .

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Anonymous
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This must be really hard for you but will you not fight for your love? Iโ€™m not saying to go against your parents but atleast you both try to convince them. Marriage is a big step, will you be happy with someone else, will you be able to love them? If not youโ€™ll not ruin your own but the other personโ€™s too. Try to explain them that you wonโ€™t be happy. For parents, their childโ€™s happiness is the top most concern

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Anonymous
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Marriage about your futureโ€ฆI think you should choose someone whom you truely love and wonโ€™t regret doing it in future. Firstly think about yourself and how it will affect your future.

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