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Anonymous

Hi there everyone!!
I think i am kindaa showing some kindaa lunatic behaviour!! I met a guy about 6 months back thru matrimony… Our families met twice and it was kindaa final in 2nd meeting but there was some clash of thoughts between me and his cousin sister in the 2nd meeting!! I am a working girl… I am in gov sector and totally independent… But the clash did come with me demanding some help in household chores from the boys side and me being overanxious on thinking i will be engaged on that very day… Finally… It was a no from their side!! Which is totally fine but what bothers me is the guy… I m not able to put him out of my brain… I have no idea wat he thinks about me but i think a lot about him… I came to know he got engaged few dayz back but knowing that dint change a bit of my feeling for him!! I even dont know him but yeah i admit i had a crush on him… I m not soooo sad but i m not happy either… I jst thought these are jst feeling… They will eventually go away but its almost 6 months goddd and i cant forget him… How can i help myself😞😞😞

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TeeJay @dran89

Hey sorry to hear that it didn’t work out.

You seem to have taken a major liking for that guy. Which is totally fine. But girl! He’s already engaged and its been six months, I think its time to face some realities. When you guys had the time, you both didn’t get to know each other well. Maybe because the whole affair seems very rushed to me.

And also, this is a dead end. And I suggest you move on. Meet other people na! Matrimonial meet ups are like that. Let him go. Let’s move on to the next guy! 😉😉

Maybe you don’t want to hear this from me. But it is what it is.
I wish you all the best.

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Anonymous

This one is the best and most straightforward advice i could get on this thing!! I will try my best for it and anyways i have to get over him by hook or by crook!! Thank you for making time for advising😊😊

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TeeJay @dran89

Haha! And you’re welcome! All the best 😄😄

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