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Hi, so I have this pretty big problem with my boyfriend. We have a pretty nice relationship and have been together for more than 5 years now. His dream has always been to have kids, but I am really scared of getting pregnant and never intended to have kids. I thought this problem would resolve as we got older, but we are approaching our 30s and I still dont want kids…
I really want to stay with this guy, but I hate the idea of taking away his dream just because I dont want kids. When I bring it up to him, he just tells me he is happy with me and dismisses it, but I feel increasingly anxious about this issue and dont know what to do…


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Hey kids are the most beautiful gift! if you don’t want try telling your partner and make a strong point which make him believe why you don’t want kids:)


Why don’t you think about adoption?