Hi so I brokeup with this guy a few weeks ago but my literal BESTFREN met him every day and now they’re hooking up, I felt kinda lonely after the breakup and now I’ve got no one to hangout with since my best fren is with him all the time 

Aight  could you suggest a friendly way in which I can stop talking to her 

Don't find a friendly way . Say it straight on her face what you feel because if you don't confront her na u ll regret . Just say it up straight . Msg her everything u feel and read her reply that's it no need to have conversation . And u ll miss her but make sure you don't text her back. Make new friends and have fun .

If she really was your best friend she would be with you instead of hooking up with him . So you should stop calling her that . And you should work on yourself . Make new friends online . Have fun and I would just you to be at distance with your so called "best friend" because she isn't . Hope you have a great day <3

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I once had a friend who is very smart and talented but we ended our friendship on a very bad note . Okay background story we are friends since 8th class but then after 10th i left my hometown and there was a distance between us due to this . I recently was very sick and had a surgery i went home we met i told her all about mah life and she told me all about hers we vibe so well . Later on I decided to come back to my workplace city she also wanted to come along with me (as she never went outside to live alone and never had this experience) . Now it was great for somedays and later she just started avoiding me all of a sudden I never treated her bad or did any harm to her but one fine day she just suddenly moved away and took a pg somewhere i was unaware of the fact later we had a very bad fight and we never talk i lost a very good friend:(

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I’m going thur a hard time. I found out that my ex-bff was using my friendship just because I own the apartment she was living in, and, by the time she decides to move, she stopped to look at me (she turns her face when sees me). 
She was never my real friend. We have our disagreements during the time we were friends because she always flirted with the boys I was into, she said bad thing about myself for the friends that I introduced to her and although I always landed thing to her, it never worked the other way around. 
I always new this things, but always forgive because the feeling of not having her around was scary. She makes me company and comforted me in times of emocional need (oh, she is a pspsychologist). 
I don’t know what to do about her living the apartment next door and not talking to me. It’s making me so sad and confused. It’s like I’m living in the past and the only feeling I’m having is this awful nostalgia.
(I’m sorry for my bad English, I’m from Brazil). 

So i kinda just wanted to get this out there because i just want to get some opinions on it

So over a year ago i met this girl online (for the sake of this im going to call her charlie) on roblox.  we got each others contacts and we soon became really close.  we were ibfs.  we'd have so many little jokes together and we would tease each other about everything.  we had nicknames for each other and we'd always flirt together as a joke. we'd always go to each other with our problems and there was nothing that we couldnt talk to each other about.  but as i was getting good friends with her all of my other friends around me started letting go until i only had her left. i dont have friends from school or anything like that, im not too good with friends and charlie made me feel really loved and like she cared so i never really minded.  She was by FAR obviously the most important person in my life, in a way i felt like i was only living for her, i cared about her more than anything in the world.  She had loads of friends and i mean LOADS.  but i felt like she always put me first.  

But like with any friendships there are going to be problems we didnt fight or argue much.  Me and her were both pretty chill. But id always felt like whenever she'd like achieve something. i'd hype her up so much, but when id done something she wouldnt do the same for me.  But tbh i didn't really care about that.  We had jokes where she'd get to be the best but i wouldnt. i guess i was ok with that too.  she deserved the hype and the confidence.  I cant even tell you how close we were even though we were ibfs i knew her so well, we would talk everyday some nights id stay up with her until like 4am and we'd have the best times

Kinda mid jan this year (2021) me and Charlie became even closer (if that was even possible).  I ended up with a crush on her and i didnt know what to do.  Me and her started playing minecraft together and she made me cute little things and she'd say some of the sweetest things to me.  She would ss our cuter convos and put them on her close friends story on insta. I thought she might like me back but i wasnt really sure.  I just pushed all the feelings down because i didnt want to ruin anything.  We were so close and id never been so close to anybody before in my life and i didnt want to mess it up by liking her.  She made me feel so happy.  She meant the absolute world to me.

A few days ago she started being off with me.  She was making me feel really bad about myself.  I think she might of been joking but it did hurt.  We then had a small argument (we didnt usually have arguments so it did make me quite upset) and i decided i wasnt going to talk to her until she messaged me first because i always apologise even though its never really my fault i just feel bad.  Later on that day i joined our minecraft world and she'd written some stuff about me on the walls of the house she had made for me.  Not nice stuff it was all secrets id trusted her with and her saying what she really thought of them, it was stuff like oh your such a baby for crying over that.  your such a sad person u need to grow up.  I was honestly shocked and i was like so upset i didnt really get why she would say that and it hurt me like ALOT it felt like she was attacking me.

 I obviously messaged her about it saying how it was all wrong.  I wrote her a massive paragraph literally APOLAGISING about it even though its not really something that could of been my fault i just got 'k' as a reply.  I messaged her saying sorry about literally getting upset about and she still put 'k'.  I didnt know how to fix it.  i asked her what was up or what id done and she said nothing.  she told me to go away i didnt want to, it just pissed her off more and she said she didnt want to be friends no more, not out of rage just in general.  It made me so upset because she meant the world to me and we'd known each other for so long.  and in the year and a half we'd been besties for she'd never said anything like that to me before.  and like i had nobody else to ask or talk to about it.

After that i wrote her more paragraphs the next day.  I literally just said everything i was thinking.  It was mostly about that fact that she didnt care about me because she could just leave me so easily.  She might of told me the truth but im not sure.  she said she liked me but the only way to get over me was to hate me and that was why she was doing this.  I obviously told her i liked her back so she didnt have to.  after talking to her all that day as friends i asked her if she wanted to be together.  she said idk.  I decided not to go back to that and asked her if we could just be like friends again.  She said maybe.  That friendship only lasted less than a day.

she was being really off again and was purposely saying things to try and hurt me.  we obvi had another argument and she said shes changed and her opinions about me have also changed.  She said she dosent like me and she dosent want to be friends.  She said she dosent really care about me anymore.  I didnt know how to react.  Tbh i just started crying again.  

I agreed to her goodbye and said something along the lines of 'i hope ur life gets better and i hope ur happy again one day'  she said there was no point in saying that bc she dosent care about me so shes not going to remember.  That one hurt.  Like alot bc i think it was what i wanted her to say to me. But it was just a reminder that she didnt care about me.  She then said how she was going to kill herself the night before and i was trying to comfort her but she just told me to go away and she brought back that idc were not friends and so idc what u think.  Like im worried about her but she dosent really want my help. 

Im honestly so upset about it.  We were so close and we have so many memories and its just like it feels like my fault and im not sure if i should just give up on her and try and move on or if i should keep trying.  It was such a good friendship.  The best one ive ever had in my whole life.  I really wanted us to last as friends but idk, what do you guys think bc i could really do with some help on this bc its not like i have any friends to ask about it :/


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I have a female best friend we know each other . we were good friends we shared everything . cared each other helps each other . i liked her and loved her .So i proposed her . she said now we can continue as good friends after this course i will say the answer  so i was happy that she did not reject me . so we continued our friendship.  there was person who go and says my bad things to her . she hated him . I already said  my all stories to her. And also she gets some confusion regarding that is he trying to act a good person and and become a good partner to her. I also have doubts what's the reason for that . I don't know what is the problem with that guy . so we avoid it but he started to chat with her and become a friend of her .   one day i turned on my phone's airoplane mode for fast charging and went to sleep due to tired afer i wake up . when i turned on the airoplane mode then I received the first call from her that you(me) are not caring me and you are not at all bothered about me and she shouted , i don't know the reason because my intention was call her continuously after my phone get fully charged . i was very afraid is the friendship is going to break due to this reason . Next day she did not minded me and she was very angry during this situation that person cames to her and she shared the situation to him and he suggested to block me she did as he said . after next she unblocked me and said that it is very difficult to continue this sometime only i can comeback to the old friendship I sorry without knowing the reason .   I called her as usual  she takes the call started to speak but i started to feel some sort of avoidance.   during this situation that person and she became besties . While i was in the call she started to take the call of that person by ignoring me, but i tried to avoid it , because i loed her so much after that this avoidance increased day by day . i ask her whether am i become a burden for you  but she says no but she acting as that i become an burden.  one day i stopped the calling usually if one person stops the calling , if they are best friends they will think what happens to him or her and call that person  . In this case she did not call me back . days passed away and months also . Up to this time she didn't  call me . so I tried to forget her but I can't . I don't know what is the reason behind this . I feel very lonely after that because we called everyday and speaks a lot like 4 to 5 hours every night  . So what should i do........

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