Hi! My ex broke up with me 6 months ago. Since then he tried to come back several times (not officially but u get what i mean). One month ago he started going on dates with random girls and brought them to our spot and i caught him with a different girl every time. Today he unfollowed me. However idk if it sounds weird but sometimes i feel a connection inside me and now i feel like the connection is strong and then he unfollows me. It’s pretty overwhelming for me because he treated me so badly and i dont know how to justify his unfollow

Move on how? He is the one who initiated the breakup

U can justify his unfollow by the fact that he's going on dates with multiple girls....and this is when our mind goes back to when it was magic...I very well know these tricks played by our minds....don't fall for it, u broke up for a reason stick to that...make a list and keep reading it whenever u recall of the "connection" 

Just move on buddy. You can do it great things waitin for u :)

Breakup

This is my first relationship and his 4th or 5th I'm not sure , at the beginning we were genuinely so in love, we would be constantly talking to each other , laughing, playing , we just enjoyed spending time together be it through call or text or hang out at his place , due to his work he had to move to another state , we were able to manage long distance for like a year and a half, however recently things have gotten really bad , we constantly fight , we hardly talk to each other , we are unable to communicate, I tried breaking up with him several times but he just wins me over , due to this constant arguments and fights I am always in a bad mood , I really don't know if i should leave him based on his present behaviour or stay thinking of the past good times 


Boyfriend

There's a guy I've been dating for more than 2 years now and he's just... Blocking me out of nowhere suddenly and we've shared some pretty good moments... It's not casual that he can just ghost me out... He's said he sees himself marrying me one day and he just suddenly blocks me... I try to be very supportive and very nice to him but I'm just so tired of being treated like a toy... I've given up so much for him... And I just don't know what to do anymore... I've had enough but I've also wasted so much time on him... I don't know what I should do anymore, I'm just so so tired 

Relationships

I already mustered all courage to tell my parents about him. And that I wont marry anyone else. But parents are playing tricks from then. The guilty trick - to make me guilty for everything. That its even a mistake I was born. The insult party - where u doubt whether they are even your parents. The love drama - where they act all lovely more than the normal time. The servant drama - where they will run after you for all chores. The we dont know trick - where they act like nothing happened and they never heard what I said. 
All happened with a big hit in my brain. I am all alone and depressed. I need courage to speak up again. But seeing all the drama I am scared. I am confident abt him but scared to go through all shit again. What can I  do. I need help. 

Family

I and my partner has been not talking to many days. He says he's busy but apparently he has time for all his routine like gym, meeting with his friends etc. Last few days has been very rough for me all i wanted to talk for few mins but we couldn't. Yesterday when i got chance to talk he said he's not feeling like talking so i wished him goldmines. Now today finally we are talking and now he's asking for few days break for figuring things out in his life. 
Few thing been tough for him too but he doesn't seem to cut Anything from his routine to figuring things out. I understand sometimes ppl need space but it's already a long distance plus we haven't been talking since long. I've been very patient and understanding with this situation. And when i tried to communicate about problems he needs break. 
Idk if i should invest myself into this person or not. 
Don't want another heartbreak. 

3am Thoughts

I still wanna go back to him. As much as I try to lie to myself and say it's fine without him. As much as I distract myself. The only thing one my mind is him. everyday. every second. he might have been explosive and mean at times. still, i need him. I'm being put through counseling because it was a "big deal" and he was "an ab*sive/ bad person" but it wasn't and he isn't. I want him back 

F just had a long convo with my long distance friend after a month, and his mental health is getting worse I'm so worried about him, idk how to help and it makes me wanna cry. I just hope he'll be fine and everyone who's dealing with mental health issues will be fine.

Mental Health

I was in class 8th when I fell for a guy who is 2 years older than me. I took an initiative to talk. I was childish enough to send him friend request from my father's social media account, we started talking normally and at the end of class 8th I made my own account and we used to talk everytime. Things became more clearer between us, we got close. We started talking in the school. But things got changed when one of his friends confessed his feelings to me and I being excited idiot accepted his confession even though I liked his friend at first place. We started dating, but when I realised that whatever I'm doing is toxic then I confessed everything to him and we broke up. His feelings for me were not sincere at all. He told me that it was an attraction that build up when my crush used to talk about me with them. Around that time I was in class 9th and they were in class 12th. The guy I like stopped talking to me and things got more awkward, but when I wanted to talk to him to sort out everything, he transferred to another state. He blocked me from everywhere. After 10th I went to another city and in class 12th I came to know that the guy my best friend is dating is best friends with the guy I like since we all were from the same school. Now I'm in 1st year, whenever we meet he's always there. My best friend hugs him in front of me. Says, if "I didn't had his best friend as my boyfriend I would've dated him instead." My crush says in reply "I would love to date you". He texted me on my birthday and I finally confessed my feelings to him and I didn't get any kind of surprised expression from him and he wasn't shocked. He just said that he liked that I confessed him and it was 8 months ago.He's still single waiting for love of his life and I'm here waiting for him. 
I'm confused, very confused. I still want him, whatever I did in my past out of my so called childish behaviour is hindering everything now. I don't even have courage to talk about this to him and the way my best friend acts towards him is not helping either 

Crush

Quick doubt! 

These questions have been bothering me a while, and I know I cannot be asking people of opinions or decisions I had to make. But, I believe that we all have walked different paths in life and somehow what I’m going through will be something that majority of us has faced. 

So here it go, last Christmas my best friend proposed me and I said yes. We started living together from Dec to Feb and in the month of February he relocated so it’s Long distance. 

After he moved things changed, he wasn’t spending much time with me, and that big change did bother me a lot. I tried communicating with him about what I was feeling but it always ended in a fight.But I always blamed the situations and I never left his side or even thought of ending the relationship. I mean it’s the long distance. 

Fast forward to 1 month of Long Distance. He took a trip with his friends ( I don’t know them ). And, while he was on the trip he didn’t talk to me and I’m completely ok with it but he didn’t call and wish me on my birthday. It would take what 2 min to call? I was waiting waiting and waiting. And when I called to ask him about it he said he couldn’t call me. I was upset but I let it go. 

Next day, he said he wants to end things bc he cannot be in a relationship right now bc of had financial issues with family, he needs to figure out his life and so on. I was so hurt and my mental health was down. I couldn’t sleep or eat, I’m not being productive all day. I felt like I was easy to give up, I felt used and betrayed and a lot more. 

I always had hope that things will work out I understood he was stressed he blocks and then unblocks me. It’s a never ending cycle. And I have fear of being abandoned, so every time he unblocks I used to tell him that it triggers me a lot and he blocks me anyway later. 

On going through all of this, today I noticed a picture of him with a girl, she was hugging him tight. I don’t normally have doubts or insecurities. But, he said he doesn’t talk to his parents , friends or anyone. He said he felt stressed on figuring out his life, he said he needs to prioritise himself and he can’t even spend 5 minutes of his day talking to me. And I’m sure the picture was a recent one from the trip. 

I feel rejected and I also noticed that his best friend who was following me on Instagram has unfollowed and removed me from his followers list. Should I consider this as a official breakup and just move on? 

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