Rituparna Kar @kuser0987
Hi, just wanted to ask youβll. Do you come across narcissists that love to speak as if you are a sad case. Speak of how sad and pathetic and weak you are? Highlight how you are trampled by people always and are uncomfortable to appreciate your wings. They love to be pitiful to you? Like the unfortunate hopeless weak shit case theyβd like you to feel as. They hate to see you proud and would want you to feel like you are always less?
Devashish @devashish1506
This person is coming from too much hate. Best is to avoid such people. They ll just drain you. Sending positivity your way
Rituparna Kar @kuser0987
Thanks
Ravish @risingman
You wonβt believe they are there and I face them everyday in office.
And my tackling technique is, either I tell them to their faces to stop or I listen to them without even listening.
Rituparna Kar @kuser0987
Yes this is the a good way! Thanks for understanding.
Wooju @wooju
See in this World people choose to pull others down and make them week instead of them trying to work on their lives. So no matter what you do they gonna judge you so instead of worrying or thinking what they are speaking or how they are treating you just ignore them which makes your life easier and thatβs how I keep up with life
I am with someone who is exactly like this person β¦i can totally get what you are feeling i have been with this person for 5 long years even though i know i deserve better but breaking up with them is just so difficult cuz with all the gas lighting and manipulation it truly makes me feel like iβd be nothing without them β¦i have begun distancing myself from this person slowly and gradually it isnt gonna be easy but it is necessary i hope you too find the strength to do whatever it is you need to β¦to get out of this shit β¦stay strong , you arent weak β¦weak is the person who has to make you feel bad bout yourself just to make themselves feel better
So true π―
Thank you i really appreciate your words β¦i think i just needed to hear this it is gonna help me work on myself even more
I am glad i came across someone like you β¦thank you for existing
sun flower @sun_flower
And thatβs how my ex was, damnnn that was badβ¦ getting away from narcissistic people also has consequences
Agreed β¦he would lock me at his place if he went out β¦heβd choose the people i can be friends with β¦whatever i earned automatically would be deposited to his account β¦iβd spend nights crying and praying that it would stop hurting heβd hear me cry all night and still slept comfortably β¦he had me cut off from all my family and friends and if i tried to talk to someone about it people would dismiss what i had to say cuz they believed he wasnt that kind of a person .i have major trust and self esteem issues