Hi, I’m really bad with opening up and talking about myself. But it has been so hard lately. I’m a young teenager, struggling with undiagnosed mental ilnesses. I’m binge eating or starving myself. My grades get worse and worse. I feel so alone and sad. And I always try to keep up, but I’m loosing faith and hope in life. I know some people would get sad if I’d leave this earth, that’s why I didn’t do it. Even if I already attempted but survived somehow. Not many people know about how i actually and geniunely feel. I feel like a burden and loser. My best friend is also dealing with a lot rn, that’s why I feel so bad after opening up to her. She has been through a lot too if not even more than I did, cause she never told me anything about how she feels and about her trauma in life. My sister is so successful, has a passion and works for money and has good grades. My parents loose hope in me, I can tell how they push me to tutoring. But I still get bad grades and they have to push me to study. My sister has always been the more intelligent and hardworking sister. I’m just existing, my emotions feel so hard to explain. I think I’ve never been in a darker place before. I just hope this endless, and lonely cycle ends one day.
hello Sweetie. Im a bit older than you , I remember how i felt when i was a teenager,… NEVER compare yourself to others, no matter if it’s your sister or friend, you 100% HAVE DIFFERENT TALANTS , that other people don’t, stop starving yourself, cuz you and your body are ONE, start talking more, to your parents, tell them how you feel, you can’t be perfect, your grades don’t define you , you are much more valuable than you think you are, much smarter, as soon as you will control your mind and your body everything will be MUCH BETTER, positivity is in details, you don’t have to be perfect, it’s ok to not be okay, but don’t let it kill you and your motivation to live this life. you are ENOUGH!
Thank You. I really needed this rn.
Hi,
Thank you for opening up
My dear u are just a teenager
So much time is there
For u to make ur career
To achieve in life
Just have full faith in urself
U can do it
U will do it
Just stop overthinking
pls stop comparing urself with ur sister.
…
In life always compare with self
Be better version of urself…
Ur competition is with self…
Just makeup ur mind
Focus on studies,urself,ur career
Forget the rest
Set small study targets
Go slow but steady
Donot overburden urself…
Listen to some motivational speeches for students on youtube…
Just relax
Pamper,love n appreciate urself
You are a warrior
U will do it…
All the very best to you.
God bless you little sister with lots of strength n guide u on the path of the success u deserve…
Always remember
OUTCOME IS NEVER IN UR HAND
BUT GIVING THE BEST SHOT IS WHAT YOU CAN DO
SO PLS DO UR HARDWORK…
TAKE CARE
KEEP SMILING N SHINING
Thank You a lot.
Sneha Anand @sneha08
I too, am very weird when it comes to expressing myself emotionally and it end up fuckin my headspace.
I just wanna tell you one thing that it’s always gonna be that someone will always have an edge over us or will be better than us, so what do we do then?! I know how our society constantly compares us and believes in a clear cut hierarchy or label us as good, not good, intelligent, stupid but I find it so exhausting and i feel that they will all reach a saturation point one day.
I am really not gonna give you advice on how to improve your grades but my only concern is what makes you, YOU, sure your sister is great but she’s not YOU.
Lots of love and strength to you and your best friend, and you guys are more brave than you think yourselves to be. 🌈🌻🌼
love u.
Sneha Anand @sneha08
Haha! You too, sweetheart 🌼💙
dhvani @dhvanee
Hey, I’m a teen too. And you know what, my younger sister is a lot better than me in a number of things, like she plays all sports well, she clicks good pictures, cooks at times, makes everyone smile, and is everyone’s favourite. I sometimes myself feel like I wish I could be someone’s priority, if I could complete everything on time, if I could make others smile, and I always try my best to get better at different things. But the strong realisation that I recently got was that, why be like my sister? Why be her? She can definitely inspire me with her perfection in every genre of life, but why do I need to be the same? Did anyone ever define what perfect is? Perfection is just being your best self. You must know your true self worth. You must know that as long as you try your best, you’re perfect. Just know that you need to be you. We are always compared with others, but little do we realise that no one is the judge of our lives! Let’s be our best, let’s try our level best, and you know what, examination scores don’t matter as long as you know that you’ve gained knowledge, and you understand everything you study. I could find your situation relatable to mine, and I really hope that you feel better now.
Always here to help you out :)
Thank You so so much. I feel so worthy after reading this.
dhvani @dhvanee
You’re worth everything. Just believe in yourself! :)
