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Anonymous

hi I’m new here! since this is anonymously I would like to express my feelings right now about relationship and want to know some thoughts coming from you as well.

here i am sitting in my bed facing laptop and typing what’s going on my head and what it feels

i have a suitor for almost a year now but we treat each other as a typical in relationship. we come up with fought, misunderstanding and even betrayed me and many little matters. but, beyond that we’ve always choose to stay and love each other.

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now, we’re not okay because he post a picture in social media without even sending to me first. you know what it feels? it feels like he/she seeking for the attention of other. am i’m not enough? it’s a no… i know that i am enough but he/she is not contented :(

it’s kind a little thing but please do respect. it’s about trust issue, it is worth it to continue what we have?

(btw, im not good in sharing thoughts, often times i just let it in my head and that’s it)

what should i do?

☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

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Anonymous

Helloo, let me see it in my perspective okay^^
We know that one of the important keys of a relationship is trust, how do we trust each other.
But may i know the reason why you’re feeling upset bcs he/she didnt send you the picture first? Why do he/she have to send the pic to you? And how do you know that he/she is just looking for attention?

I’ve watched a video on y o u t u b e about a relationship expert’s opinions. She, the expert, said that when you decide your partner feels (or just assuming them feeling like this, like that), when you say something in his/her/their behave without their willing, it’s actually not good for a relationship.
Therefore, if you think your partner’s behaviour is unlike the usual, you better talk about it with them, communicate it, asking them why did they do that.
Remember that communication is also the key. I believe things will work out if you can communicate it well with your partner.

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Anonymous

feels upset 'cause it feels like i’m not important to him/her now not like before. okay fine, i try to don’t affect in his/her doings. appreciated your perspective and advice, i’ll try to confront him/her about that. yah i know communication is also the key in relationship but i think heart to heart talk is the best as well instead of every second, minute, hour talking or chatting with him/her. thanks btw.

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