Hi, I’m in relationship past 4years. I’m 29y and this is my first love and relationship. I been love with someone who different religion from me. And now his family not agree with our relationship. And he start to avoid me. I don’t know what happening there. We are in long distance relationship. I’m from Malaysia and he from India. I can’t visit him also. He not reply my message and at same time he not talking about break up. But I felt like he playing with emotion. I have a serious relationship with him. I can’t move on. I can’t stop my self to stop text stop with him. I need help. 🥲🥲🥲🥲
Did you try calling him?
He not ready to talk. When I keep texting him he replied u wand I block u?
There are two possible scenarios,
One, he never loved you and he was just killing his time with you. That’s why he is ready to break this relationship so easily.
Second, maybe he loves you. But he loves his parents even more and can’t go against their decision. And that’s why he’s forced to ignore your texts.
How can someone leave a girl after using her. And married to someone in seek of parents. I can’t move on… I can’t imagine someone in my place. 😭😭😭😭😭
I know it’s very tough, sweetheart but you have to move past this now. You can’t change what happened. You can’t bring that time back. Maybe, life has something better in store for you. Perhaps, someone better than this idiot guy. Please don’t cry over him. He doesn’t deserve your tears.
We have so much memories. So much of promise… when he proposed to me I told him, we are not in same religion better we stop here. But he promise me he will fight for our relationship. And when he kissed me I told him u are my first kiss pls don’t leave in any cost. He promised me. When he touched me I told him I can’t married to someone after this all. I can’t imagine someone in your place. He promised me. But now 😭😭😭😭
Promises are a big lie. We all break promises whether intentionally or unintentionally. He promised to fight for your relationship but he isn’t even picking up your calls. Even if you get married to him, do you think he’ll not cheat on you? He’s a red flag, dear. You were naive, you were innocent. You still are very naive. And it’s very difficult for you, I get it. But this isn’t the end of the world either. You have to keep going, you have to move on. Trust me, a lot of better guys will enter your life and make you feel things that that idiot couldn’t make you feel.
Thank you buddy… but I don’t think so I can share my body with other guys even if they are good. I don’t think so I will married to someone. Maybe u will think I’m stupid. But I felt disgusting when I imagined myself in someone arms. The intimacy I shared with him always in my hearts. I’m not able to get rid it.
Mm hmm. That’s what you think for now. See, when love knocks at your door, you can’t help it, you can’t stop it from happening. So if someone better is destined to treat you better, it’ll all just happen on it’s own. But ofc, it’s your life and your choice.
