Hi, I'm in love with a person from childhood. He is my relative. understands each other. while stepping out from college we planned to get married. The problem is "from his side all are ok, only my side not agreeing"...i don't know what to do....we didn't spoke for 2years. still waiting patiently.

Hi!
Why are your parents not agreeing? 
The fact that why to marry your own relative?

Relationships

I met a guy on a matrimonial website. We have been together for few months now. He is exactly the kind of person I wanted in my life. But his family is not as financially stable as my family is, which is an issue for my parents. I just don’t know what to do.

Marriage

I have always fallen for guys who know how to keep the conversation going, who made me feel the so-called "spark" on the first date. But these men have turned out to be absolute assholes who have taken me for granted. 
There's this guy now, who is nice, mature, kind to me, has good (not great) conversations, but I don't feel anything for him. Could be because I have only came across shitty men, and I am accustomed to them. If I am thinking of stability, should I give this guy a shot? Will it be settling? Because I have valued great conversations since forever...and I don't think, I will have it with him. 
Those of you in relationships here, could you guide me a little on this? Should I wait for someone better, or try being in relationship with this guy? 

Adulting

should i just leave him on delivered or like the message he been so dry and just saying “ok” 

3am Thoughts

How to get over someone who was never officially yours?

The guy who has girflriend is too kind to me.. The problem is before some time he told me he liked me and if we wanted to be together.
I said I was not ready. Later I realized actually i have strong feelings towards him. But it's been around a month since he has a girflirend. Despite that fact, he is still showing affection (for example today he hugged me). It's so difficult for me, it makes me so confused and sad at the same time..like, am i viewed as a friend now? Or why is he keeping being like that... What should I do? 

Confusion

I went through a tough  time for the past 2 years . I loved someone back in 2019 . He was in my college and we hit it off but during the first lockdown when  we were separated geographically for a year in between there came a time when he started behaving absurdly ...like Calling more than 25 times in 4 hours and was paranoid and bored . He even forced me to live in but I wasn't ready and i got scared seeing this kind of behaviour which he never showed before.  Some time after our break up I fell for someone who too was from my college and my class and he too started liking me . In fact he made the first move and i went ahead with it . Soon after the 2nd wave i came back to a common place where he was also going and we stayed in live in relationship for 10 months . Alot of things happened. We fought . Things became really fucked up and some verbal abuses were exchanged . He lived with me rent free for a couple of months (more than for 3 months ) i did everything for him which I never did for anyone before or things which i usually wouldn't just to make him comfortable and at home . I am having a hard time dealing with this breakup since I never fell so hard for someone . I genuinely loved him . We are now just friends after 4 months of not talking . We haven't seen each other for 4 months since I went back home and ever since I came back i didn't meet him .

Just wanted to vent out my feelings . If anyone has anything to say that can help me gain a perspective are welcome.

Anxiety

I think I can really never love anyone truly, and I think my parents relationship plays a major part in this. I dont like  to  believe love or marriages, friendship and forever stuff's. I believe that only you will be there for yourself and tats not really sad,I like it . I  mostly don't expect or depend on people . But there is this guy and he is my best friend and I really don't want to loose him, I haven't found anyone like him, I also don't want to do anything tat will ruin the best thing I ever have, like Im scared that I might shut him out with no clue .

Love

Some time has passed after my cheating ex and i broke up. Whenever i see him or hear about him, i get this weird dull pain in my heart. It’s hard to see that he’s so happy without me. Isn’t it so obvious that after losing someone you loved you wouldn’t be happy? He seems unbothered. So for the past 2 years, the ily’s he said, didn’t mean anything? Whatever happened between us didn’t mean anything? Whatever i felt he never felt them? I saw him yesterday and i have been feeling so anxious since. I don’t know how to control this. Please someone help me.

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