Hi, Iβm a university student studying in the States. I lead a comfortable life and have always had access to certain luxuries. However, as I grew older I realised that my parents have just been putting up the front of a wealthy family. My dad is a jeweller by profession who manages his boutiques in certain metropolitan cities in India. I donβt know when and how things got to the point that they did. I donβt know when I realised that my father is under tremendous debt and that my mother and father do not really get along. my mom manages some of his clients for him and they split their income likewise. for lack of any other options, my mother wonβt leave my father. And instead of cutting down on expenses, they continue to spend lavishly to maintain that image. I donβt know what to do, I donβt think that they know that I know. And maybe thatβs why they have been keeping it to themselves, to not disappoint me and my sister. So that we donβt feel deprived of what weβve been used to. To be frank, I think it is a little difficult for me also to be a little conservative with my money and to think before spending, but Iβm saving up and I donβt want to put any further financial burden on my family. I just hope that this isnβt the reason why my family falls apart.
I am sure it will all work out. Please donβt think negative thoughts. All the best xx