hi i’m 20 years old and i never had been on a relationship. i ask some girls but they reject me.
To be honest i want a gf but i don’t think i will get one cuz i’m not that handsom.I’m studying currently but this thought kill me again and again.I don’t know i want to make love but there’s is no one. I don’t kow what i have to do
Sometimes i hate myself and do self harm not much but yea sometimes.
I tried everything but no help nothing works.
Every girl is not made for you.
You don’t have to be handsome to have a girlfriend and why do you even need a girlfriend, to marry? Or just to compete with friends,That would be the silliest thought of all time, you have. A family to feed not a community to impress. Be yourself, learn to love yourself. I can suggest you to read the bible or watch the lucifer series. You will know what hatred really is and what is it to love yourself.
Simran @st1199
Hey!
Don’t worry man. You will be in one when you have to be and you and she will put in efforts. I am 21 and I have never been in a relationship either. Not because I didn’t get the opportunity but because I have my criteria to have one. I don’t feel bad about nor should you. You are young and have a whole life for this.
Everything isn’t about physical appearance only. There are 2 types of things that happen.
1. You approach someone through common friends/online dating apps/SM, which means you directly don’t know them by any means then YES, looks are the first thing that a person sees, both male and females. And, it is okay not an issue. It’s human nature.
2. You know someone already/had interacted somewhere or known each other indirectly already, then not only looks but nature/behavior/actions make you keep in the game or not. Even if someone has looks but not other qualities, one shouldn’t go ahead if someone is looking for something genuine.
Both these pointers are not FACTS but I observed and feel things go this way.
I would prefer the second option and find someone that way only even if takes me years to have the connection. Don’t rush you will not find anything but have patience things can work your way. 😀
