Hi,
I’m 16 and I’ve come to this website because I have nowhere to go. I live with my mom and brother. Me and my dad have a rocky relationship, and so I can’t talk to him either. The thing is, I don’t feel anything. No love towards family, nothing seems to make me happy, I’m not concerned about my future, even though, according to everyone, is the right time to set goals for yourself. I don’t feel anger, I don’t care if I don’t have any real friends. I’m just…I don’t know. I don’t know what’s my purpose. There are several reasons as to why I am like this, and I want to get out of this stage. I don’t know if I’ll find real help here, as compared to an actual counsellor, but this is my only choice.
Hey…so we’re of same age…and i feel you becoz even I have family issues…but what I feel is why should I sit there and keep thinking about the issues…the solution to this is…start focusing on yourself and just find happiness in small things…you can talk to me if you wanna share anything❤ you don’t need a reason to be happy love❤
hey!!! I am going through the same thing I am 15. but I think its completely ok to feel alone I don’t have friends either but if you want to know what makes you happy to have to explore yourself maybe you like music or painting it’s…everything is going to be ok
Sounds like you are in depression tbh . I would just suggest you to neglect all of the negative thoughts and don’t question your purpose as this is just a phase and in future great things will come . You should talk it out more often about your feelings with anyone you trust or here .
But remember you’re not alone 🧡
It’s so sad that you’re having such a hard time right now . . .
Believe it or not, neurologically speaking, your brain cannot differentiate between physical harm and emotional harm. As far as it’s concerned they’re both one and the same.
This means that the more unhealthy things get for you the more you’ll struggle with daily tasks and living in general until, one day, it all finally just falls apart . . .
As acknowledged in ancient wisdom, “A crushed spirit saps one’s strength." -Proverbs 17:22
Hi. We can talk about it one by one if you want to. Am all ears and I’m here for you.
But remember, its all normal.
And this too shall pass.
