Priyanshi @priyanshibabbar
Hi! I am in 3rd year college now.
I started dating a senior guy when I was in 1st year. It has been so 1.5 years.
But long story cut short, he cheated on me with 3 other girls while he was on his training period at some other place.
In March, I broke up with him, coz he wasnāt serious about life or anything. But in April, we got back together, coz we loved each other a lot. In april he went to a concert, andade out with some girl. Then he met another girl, and they used to drink and smoke together. Then there was another girl from his gym, who came to his room quite often. They made out at times. Slept together, cuddled. Now he says sorry for all what he did.
He was the closest person in my life and I trusted him a lot, until this happened. I donāt know what to do now. Iām stuck.
Welcome to the club
Youāll start enjoying the solitude soon
Wish you all the best buddy
Priyanshi @priyanshibabbar
I havent broken up with him yet. I dont know how Iāll be without him. :(
Even I donāt know how youāll be without him, but ask me how youāll be with him and Iāll be happy to answer you.
How do I clear my mind?
Focus on yourself, get yourself together, focus on creating something big and substantial out of you, something which makes everyone regret in future for not having you.
Looking at the history it is very likely that this tendency is going to continue even after commitment. If you are emotionally strong about that you can go ahead. But if you dont want to get hurt itās not advisable to.
Priyanshi @priyanshibabbar
But I also dont want to be with him anymore, after what he has done.
Good decision. This realisation is your first step. Stay strong this too will pass and believe me you will come out of it more stronger š¤
Pranav @pranav888
Cut all kinds of connections with him and move on! Initially it will be tough but gradually you will feel better.
Vi @s_vi
First of all relax coz Iāve got many options. First, u can go approach him directly with what u feel. Two, passively cut him off with time. Three, regret that u take steps 1 and 2. The choice is yours. Cut him off. U deserve better.
Hi I feel bad for you
As a peer suggestion
First dump him and move on
And the next thing pickup a habit of your interest and donāt worry you will deserve a better one
No one is perfect these days. But you should learn how to live with these kind of situations
I guess you got ample suggestions here still i will say u r fool and doing same mistake again and again.
Come out of this and focus on ur studies. All this love and attachments are myt and are to distract you from ur and your parents dreams.
... @sony_12
Without second thought u break up with him . He is not serious so he did all these . U are not a side piece in his life . To do all these to you . You deserve much girl . Just let it go . I know itās hard šŖ but u must let it go . So the best can come š. Nothing is big deal here u can do it . Everything is OK but the place where u are not valued is not ok š . If he really loves he wonāt do this to u . Those are things which are meant to do with loved ones . But here what made him to do I d k ?
You need counselling and you also should start loving and respecting yourself.
The person has been cheating on you so many times. I lost count reading the whole post.
There are many guys waiting to treat you like a princess but you choose to be with him and be treated like batshit š£
Do you even hear yourself while you read the post above??
What is wrong with you?
Imagine you have a sister and she is such a state, what would you feel about her?? By being with such a person you are just disrespecting yourself and your loved ones too.
Secondly you said you donāt know what you would do without him.
See you are emotionally unstable. Work on emotional intelligence. The moment your guy understands you canāt live without him, thatās itā¦ This is the moment where everything gets fucked up. He will start taking you for granted, wonāt give time, ill treat you and sleep around shamelessly. This is because he is under the impression āarey Kahan jayegi 2 din royegi phir khud saamne se aayegiā
Decide if you want to remain a joke to him n his friends?? or treat yourself like a princess and give yourself due honour?
I felt this one. š¤§ Thankyou for the strong words. I really appreciate ā¤ļø
Only appreciation wonāt serve the purpose i need timely updates agar u didnāt leave him to main na aapki mummy papa ko bata dungaā¦ wo saara bhoot utaar denge š¤£
If you donāt want to be with him just leave just listen to your intuition
deep @deep587
You should leave him you know all thing that he had relation with another two girl aath same time when he said that he loves you that means he is big liar
Cheaters always cheat again
