Hi, hope everyone is fine!
One of my friend called me up yesterday and asked me to meet. He was once a very close friend but we didn’t speak with each other like for two years. Back then I trusted him a lot! but today I am confused to trust him back and at the same time I miss the friendship. I am not sure what will happen in coming future.

Hello!
Take your time and let things happen in flow. 
You don't need to rush to get your friend back, just slowly start a basic friendship and if you think you should meet him go ahead and see what is/isn't same. Act accordingly. 

Also, I suggest to make social distancing if you go out with him.

I tell you, your confusion is really worth having. And we have to agree that with time people grow and change! So i suggest, now after 2 years suddenly you shouldn’t trust A LOT. Talk to him now, get to know if he’s same or there’s change and if you find it all Positive, you can go ahead to meet him. And there’ll be no grudges in future too. Hope you get the same friend back. Have a beautiful day ❤️



Friends

I know it was uncomfortable for you . I understand.. I felt good that you said that rather than hiding it in your heart. Don't be sorry or in a guilt at all. Don't blame yourself at all. Always be happy and keep smiling 😊

Happy

I work really hard and even taking extra responsibility in my work, receiving extra recognition in my work place. However, all these hard work, it seems like my manager never cares about. She is like blaming me in every now and then, she don’t trust me or trust my work. I even complete task on behalf of her. I reduce her burden by going extra miles. Still she never appreciates. I get so frustrate in my work every time, that I cry inside. No one is there to listen. Not a single word of thankfulness. I even don’t take my break to complete other works as well to help my colleague. But all seems selfish. No one truthful. My manager seems like she hates me a lot. Her tone to me really hurts. Even few colleagues they are so arrogant in behaviour.

Work

I often feel like my mom is trying to get me to be a  copy of herself. She wants me to be interested on the stuff she likes, to go down the same career path and even to dress like her. I go along with it most of the time cause i’m scared of disappointing her but we are not alike at all and tbh I feel like she doesn’t even know me, actually no, I think she just acts like she doesn’t because she wants to mold me into this perfect replica of herself. For my birthday and events like that she always gets me stuff she knows i don’t like, stuff that looks like everything she owns. I can’t see the disappointment in her face everything i act like myself instead of how she wishes i would. We are very different almost complete opposite’s and i just wish she’d accept that. it’s my life i don’t want to live it for her.She already had her chance.

3am Thoughts

What is ur dreams?

Adulting

I never kept people in my life. But was good at distance only. Now idk how to decide he is 'the one' or not, the perfect match my family found for me (they think it is). I don't think I can be a partner, now I am habitat of being alone 

Family

confused about everything in life, pls help me find some motivation and answers. doesn't matter if its family, studies, relationships, career or hobbies i feel like i'm confused about everything in life. Whatever i do, nothing feels sufficient and satisfying and when i see others able to find their passion and settle on things, my mind go crazy, its like a storm of different thoughts fighting their way to destroy my sanity and the little confidence left in me. 

I wanted to be a doctor, then a scientist, then an astronomer and now i'm on my way to be an engineer with confusion on what to do next? a job or higher studies? if higher studies, what and where? 
and about my relationships, damn this confused state got me broke up 2 times and i'm so sure it's gonna happen again. Why can't i stay focused on one thing at a time why am i so confused about everything in life? 
I started reading novels, non-fictions with a possible thought of learning something new but nope, jumped from one-to another and never completed a single book. Bough a guitar to build up a new hobby which might cheer my mind, but havent started learning and it's just embracing dust since i got it. 

This confused state, how do people get out of it? does therapy helps? should i go out, meet new people and clear out my mind of all this confusion about everything in life or should I just keep going with the flow and let this confused state make decisions as it made for my engineering?

Life

I want to remove embarrassing photo on my old fb that is not using I reported many time but don't remove I want to delete it how can I  

Career

Today my mom told me that she’s planning to have a one night stand/possibly even a relationship with an old friend of hers. She’s a married women who’s been unhappy for years and I absolutely don’t blame her for doing it, hell I hate my dad too. But, just with all the stuff my life is going through right now the thought of how that might change my life stresses me out and the change scares me.

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