Hi everyone. I wanted to let few thoughts out of my mind because I have never shared these things ever with anyone. I was too afraid.
When i was in college, we had 3rd year final exams and I was sitting in exam hall giving exams, I was scared and tensed because the question paper was very tough. My invigilator was a man and he continously stared at me throughout. He came to me and said I think you have a mobile phone thats why you seem so scared. I was like ‘wtf’ . After that he kept on harassing me throughout exams. Time to time he used to come and touch my shoulders and he kept on telling me that he needs to check my whole body later. I felt really weird about these statements. But I couldn’t do anything then because of my exams stress and he was the HOD of some subject. He was very powerful. Later when i went to submit my papers, he touched me very inappropriately and said I need to check your whole body later. I still am very traumatised by this sentence of his.
I know I should’ve complained, should’ve done something. But I did nothing. Nothing at all.
I have 2-3 other harrasment incidents as well, being groped, being masturbated at in bus, my uncle kissing me when i was small. I never shared all this to anyone. I should’ve and I regret it till now. It haunts me.
Hey I’m so devastated after hear this . You are really very strong I’m proud of you for that but I think you should tell someone about this maybe your mother or teacher in your college or you can just file a case on that teacher .I know it’s not that easy it’s easy for me to say but is very tough when you have to face this but believe me it will be much better if you take some action against it . I’m also a girl and these things haunts me so I can understand what you are going through. I’ll just pray to god that you come out of this situation safe and sound and that teacher ( idk what’s wrong with these people they are the one who should educate everyone not to do such things but they are the one doing itself ) shame on them .
If you take any action against please reply to me even in nese future I’ll be happy to know that you stood for yourself. 🙂
- your online friend💝
Hi. I actually left that college 3 years back. And i dont think i can do anything now about it. I just wanted to let it out of my system. I wanted someone else to know about it.
Ohh I hope you feel little better after sharing and you are happy and healthy in your life right now🙂🙂
Revati @revati_123
hey,
hope you and your family are doing well.
firstly, I am sorry that you had to go through all this. I know all this is very difficult to face. it is something that no one would ever want to go through. I am so proud of you that you’ve gone through it all alone! it’s okay if you did not feel like talking about it to anyone…these are things that you shouldn’t talk about until and unless you don’t feel ready. so not talking about it is completely fine!
second of all, now that you have spoken about it here… think about if you want to do something about the past experiences that you’ve had? and if you feel like you want to do something about it think about what can you do and how you can do it. if you feel like you don’t want to do anything about the past try preparing yourself for such future experiences. I hope you never experience such things ever again, but if you do think about what can you do better? like how can you protect yourself next time something like this happens…probably you can try talking to someone on the phone in such situations…or get yourself away from that person immediately, etc.
think about all this when you feel you are ready to…don’t force yourself.
also, I am very proud of you that you’ve finally spoken about it!
a pat on your back
lots of love, light, and strength to you!❤️✨
Thank you for your support. Really appreciate it. I just wanted to share it with someone. Let it out of my system. I get nightmares sometimes thinking about it.
I feel really very bad and sorry to hear this. I am glad you are choosing to share it now. Everyone would say that you should have stopped it at that time, and made some noise etc but I understand it’s really tough to think about anything at that time. You are a very brave girl and I’m very proud of you. Sadly many girls go through all this and my heart goes out to all of them. Just be strong and try not to think about it too much. I understand that’s very tough but we need to stand up against this. We are always with you and I’m glad you shared this with us. It would still be advisable to talk to this about certain authorities.
Hi. Thanks for the support. I actually left the college 3 years back. I dont think i can do much now. I wanted to let it out of my system and wanted people to know what i went through. It was eating me from inside
