Hi everyone
I am unable to build trust on my husband though he is not wrong at all earlier he did a small mistake but now he understood n changed 

Next thing he is not willing to quit his drinking n smoking habit inspite of me making several attempts to make him understand. I feel worried abt his health. But I don't know what triggers him not to leave it inspite of knowing I feel bad n really helpless when he doesn't take my words seriously 

that sucks :( What are his excuses to continue on doing it?

Relationships

your wedding will be amazing...

but the y is silent😗

3am Thoughts

Saw a groom crying after seeing his bride 🥺 I know i won't be ever this special for anyone ever. 

FOMO

Any law students here?

Books

I am not sure how I am feeling.
My husband loves me but he expects tasty food all the time.. In the influence of other house members,i sometimes don't make that way.He got really angry about that last night. He had arrived and late.I was not a condition to recook in his preferred way.He behaved very rudely. I've compromised my leading career in order to have a balanced life. Left the place I did job.i am doing a medieval job now with average salary. My father in law was also drunk and was telling me about some other daughter in law who is staying in nuclear family in a metropolitan city and currently earning far more than me. My mother in law is upset all the time,complaining about something or the other. I find it really difficult gather myself and take care of my career and me.. I'm really confused how should I deal with all this. My current job is also very demanding. I get back home very late after all day rounds on site, I feel tired sometimes but after coming back home I have to serve tea cook dinner.. But that is all OK.this was an intercaste marriage so I have to cook mostly in their fashion but they want the food to be very tasty in their fashion all the time. 

Family

I'm married for the last 8 years and my husband has become really really condescending and demeaning over a period of time, I've done nothing so bad also to deserve such behaviour. Like of there is a fight, he won't come to pacify, irrespective of what happens, sometimes it is okay to say sorry even if you are not that wrong, but just because the other person was hurt because of you.
I lost my mother 12 years ago, and my dad may not say it, but I know I won't be welcome back in the house

Lonely

I did something wrong today.. I unintentionally hurt my to be mother in law n father in law......my boyfrien's mom n dad...she likes me alot....and I love her ...bt today I did hurt her...I met her today for 2nd time only...she must be believing how rude I'm... I'm feeling very guilty...I can't even say sorry to her..I wanna explain her that I respect her alot...bt circumstances today were somewhat difficult for me... that's why I behaved so...But I can't explain her all this .... I messed up all the things

Anxiety

Hello there! So I am still married but separated from my husband last summer. There is this guy I've been flirting with since then and even before that. We went out a couple of times, we talked a lot, opened our hearts, flirted a lot, bonded, but nothing more happened. He's always been hot and cold. Things seemed to be lifting up lately, but then he started acting weird, avoiding talking to me, avoiding eye contact with me. I texted him yesterday to see how he's doing with all the CODID19 madness but he hasn't replied. I know he has his issues because he's still recovering from a health problem he had. But can't he see he's hurting me with this behaviour? Do you think his behaviour has anything to do with me still being married and not sure about getting a divorce? Or is he just not that interested?

I don't know what to do my husband is talking to other girls on Instagram & tinder (soooo many girls)
He is so sweet to them telling them words he never said it to me all through our marriage 
Feeling disaster 

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