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Anonymous

Hi everyone.
I am here cause I want to let out my feelings that’s rumbling through me right now.
I am 70% sure of securing one of the best jobs of my career and on the other hand I have an arrange marriage proposal from a very good guy settled abroad who already likes me since our initial conversation.
The guy wants to get married by the end of the year and as not at all ready to give up my freedom so soon.
I am a very independent girl and love my freedom. But I can also think about restarting my career abroad since I am a recent graduate and opportunities will come.
I am very confused as to what I should do. It’s eating me up inside. I think a fresh mind from one of you may help me see this clearly.
What should I do? How do I take such a major decision in 2 days? Please tell me.
Thanks
#Confused #Lifedecision #Urgentadvice

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Sneha Anand @sneha08

Hey there! Marriage is a serious affair and how much ever we talk ourselves into believing that things would be the same,it doesn’t turn out that way. There are changes, minute or big ones but there is.

I can’t really tell you what to do or not to do but please think about yourself, what is that you want.
And if the guy is really into you, he would consider your priorities too.
take care🌼🌻🌼

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Anonymous

Thanks for the reply. I am still confused and it’s giving me anxiety now.

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Anonymous

I think you should focus in your career first . And yes if the boy is really into you he will wait , and if doesn’t you know that you are right to choose the career first.

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