Hi all so I been with someone one on and off and yesterday she said I will reach out when and if I want to and to give her space question is how long should I wait and why does she have to go about it like that? All reply’s would help thanx 

Frustration

I'm a 21 year old girl. I met a girl online. We used to talk alot. But suddenly one day she started ignoring me without any reason. What should I do?

Friends

Heeyyyy, 
I am in a dilemma!.. A girl tends to show that she is my girlfriend but she isn't in a relationship with me... I m so confused I share a lot of energy on her.. She even puts efforts on me.. But I dont know what it is.. Will it turn into a relationship or just a wastage of time... 
I really love her a lot.. Nd she also admits she does the same.. 

Bur sometimes she shares me such cases that we aren't gonna be together in the near future. She says she is still confused that she loves me or  not... 
Please guys help me out what to think about this situation. . .. 



Acquaintance

How soon is too soon to start a relationship... I know this girl for like now,,, one week? She is pretty, sweet.. and we go to the same English speaking class together. She is not good in English, and it's her broken English and her cuteness that's what is making me fall for her! I want to spark a conversation with her, and maybe a relationship soon, but will it be too early to fall in love? What are the odds of being hurt and lonely again... Please help me with your thoughts.. Maybe I will get some clarity

Love

Could anyone help me coz its like for me I’m worrying a lot abt my frnds breakup which is not becoz of me but her lover claims that it’s becoz of me and Im so worried that she’s my close frnd and shes now avoiding me and also she’s feeling a lot don’t know what to do we made a lots and lots of good memories and I can’t bare her that she’s not happy now 🥺her b day is also coming indirectly I’m feeling like I’m the one who ruined her love but idk she’s commited unless she let me know after her lover’s fight becoz of my chats or knowing me😞basically I’m a medico so we talked abt medical stuffs and he though like she was talking to me with bad intention thats completely wrong 😞as a frnd and as a future dr I just reassured her certain things but now I feel that it was all becoz of me and I can’t even concentrate on my things there’s a glimpse of her memory now and then like how she was and I ruined her like that pls help

Relationships

I am done with this thing. My partner always avoids me and lefts me all Alone When she is facing some Situations or Taking care of her family. Anything Happens to her familY she leaves me all Alone. And i am not against her family Simple things Happens at her home some Work or Anything She starts avoiding me and She leaves me. She is All good When nothing is wrong and then she Behaves this way everytime. 

Confusion

I'm a failure.... I'm in immense pain and the promises made from her meant nothing as they were broken over nothing. I was thinking to spent my whole life with her... I've been afraid of marrying someone my whole life but then she came in and I started believing in that and she left Saying she can't... Said I'm sorry I can't I'll deserve the suffering what I've made you feel and walked away... I've become so numb... I've even decided what ring I wanted for her... I've lost all hope... Her arms used to heal me and she doesn't want me in them anymore. I guess I deserved it and I hope I don't find anyone in my life. I hope. Thank you for reading a failure's life story.

Depression

I wanna be in a relationship (never been in one), maybe go out with someone, but with my past experiences with girls, (the most recent and the most head-screwing one as of yet, having ended last year in September), I dont know if i trust myself enough. Every time I've tried talking to a girl with the intention of going out with her, I've always ended up messing it up and feeling utterly stupid to have tried, no matter how hard I try not to.... in September I'd decided I'd try to lay off of it for a while, cause maybe I'm not ready for it, but here i am, 8 months later back at it again... started talking to this girl on tinder thinking maybe she could be my first, or maybe even the one (okay maybe that's a stretch, but come on, I'm allowed to think of it like that at least right?), but I don't know what to do bout it..... i feel like I'm being pulled apart by two seperate halves of my brain...

3am Thoughts

It's been 4-5 months now, my gf was once my biggest crush of my school. At the very beginning of our relationship, we decided to chose the same career to pursue together, but, mind changes, and right now she is thrilled to choose a pretty different career than me, not even feeling a bit sad(maybe), while I am truly heartbroken. Due to COVID, a mobile phone is our only mode of communication, and so, as the career was the only option of us staying bound together, also physically, so that opportunity is also gone, and now I am agin left with this mobile to talk to her. Thinking this makes me really really sad, I don't know what to do😭

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