Hi all,
Me and my boy friend love alot to each other. We work in same office. I am a very strong person yet a very very emotional person. Its been 6 months that his attitude and behavior has been changed. I almost beg him Everytime to be with me…I love him to the core of my heart. He is a good person. I don’t know but I feel his feeling is changed. Now he has applied for another company and he will be leave office and he is not bothered to discuss anything with me. I can’t believe how a person can change like this. My days are going simply crying, dying inside. He says I should not be taking things to heart. I feel he played with my emotions. I feel like dying…I am not able to control myself…I see him every day at office, same department. I really don’t know how to deal with it. Really going into sevior depression…please help me
Hey,Sorry to hear that. I can imagine what you must be going through. I just feel that if someone can watch you hurting, and not even tell you why they’re behaving the way they are, then that isn’t love at all. Love includes caring. It is easier to fall in love or say that you love another person, but difficult to keep loving. There are highs and lows, and love needs to be there through it all. I’m sorry that I have to give you this advice. Right now perhaps all you need is someone to tell you that he’ll come back, that it’ll be okay. And it will be okay, but you need to think about your happiness, and right now I know that that happiness would come from him. But that is temporary. I’m not saying he is a bad person. But you don’t desert the people you love, you don’t watch them cry in pain… I hope that gives you some perspective. The best thing to do right now would be to probably try talking to him, the way you have told us. And if he can’t respond to you as honestly as you do to him, then sis he just isn’t worthy of your love. If you feel unable to take the right decision, there is no harm in visiting a therapist to help you with your depression. You don’t have to deal with it alone. ❤️
Thanks a lot for replying. I have spoken many times to him even begged him…but he has become blind and deaf to my pain…I will try to visit a therapist. Thanks you for spending time…
