Heyy!!
Just wanted to vent out something bothering me for long…
My friends… They are good, really helpful and care about me…
But they sometimes, most of the time don’t know when they end out hurting me…
I have different ideologies and experiences than them, isn’t it normal? People are different… But whenever I put forth my ideology, instead of giving it a thought they try opposing it by there ideology, and that okay , but the way they do that… I don’t like it… Iam okay with their opinion but whenever I say I think this way, or keeps on arguing my opinion, they seem to get annoyed, and either starts laughing or leave the room…
Even when I have to share something from my experience, something that usually happens with me, and if that doesn’t match their experience or if that doesn’t make sense to them, they just ignore it by laughing and saying she always say stupid things and never stops Arguing…
Why would I stop?? I believe iam right… Cause i have experienced it…
And sometimes I get so annoyed that I google if I made any sense, and if I find something relatable or justifying , I forward that to them…
Instead of accepting I was right Or they were wrong they just say, she always has to prove her point…
They do consider my perspective, when atleast one person from the grp says that happened with her too… That time all of that makes sense to them…
Recent times, this happens everyday… And iam really pissed… Sometimes I feel that I should say how I feel to all of them, but then again they are my friends and college is about to end in 2 months… 🙃🙃
What should I do to make myself calm… I don’t like all of this… And if I say I felt bad, they be like, why, we didn’t say anything … I just want them to understand that iam not a fool and I have a different perspective…
If I react iam rude…
mmmm @nevan_lily
I don’t think they are good friends, they seem to disregard your opinion, which isn’t okay, they don’t listen to you, they always have something bad to say about you.
Friends aren’t suppose to make you feel shitty about yourself, that’s not how a person who actually cares about you acts.
But then again I’m only an outsider so you have to ask yourself, are they really good friends?
Maybe you should try to talk to them about how you feel about this situation, and if they still don’t care or make an effort to not make you feel bad. Then it’s better to slowly distance yourself from them, or cut them off instently, that’s up to you.
Thankyou…
I will think about what you said😊
