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Anonymous

Heyy! Hope you are doing good.
I have had a kind of rltnsp(not actually, but ya) with this since since last 2 years. In starting, he was sooo much into me, like soo much. He used to make such efforts to get me. He was chasing me then. Anyhow, after mnths of all this, he finally got me. Now it’s been 2 or 3 months that i ain’t able to feel the spark as if he’s no more into me. Idk if it’s like the time factor or genuinely he’s not trying. I have tried to have cnvrstn with him about it 2 times. Things get sorted for like week or 2, again it’s all same. I got commitment issues. I can’t get tooo much into a person, like i am afraid of some sort of separation that may happen, so i distant myself there only. But this is one guy i had spend my maximum tym with. Things were so lovely when they started but it’s all lost now. Don’t know if he’s engaged more into work or what. But i no more get excited to talk to him, there are no topics to talk about, no strong feelings to count on. Don’t know if it’ll get better and is just a matter of time and circumstances or smthng else. If anyone who has been at the same place, should i wait?

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Anonymous

my bf has been the same now. we’ve conversed and he says he’ll do better but it ends up being the same. i love him but being with him hurts. its almost a year now and before it even hits a year we’re having problems like this. recently he did get a job and our calls become less. he’s more active with school than ever before and his family and i feel second best to everything in his life now. i get he wants to get his life together but im here?.. i dont know if i want to keep going with this…

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