Heya people I have a question.
What will you do if you know you are not mentally stable enough to help someone in need. But in the heat of moment you managed to comfort them and they expect u to be there for them ( ask you to be there) . But you know if you stay it will only worsen ur own state and u won’t be much help either.
What will you do? Will you choose to stay, strain urself hurt urself and will try to be there for them or leave wd a hope that someone else will?
What if my condition is bad enough and they are suicid//al??
Then you’re the one who needs the help first. Seek for help
Circumstantial!! Depends on how much that person is important to you
A friend? Classmate
Classmate is general word. You will only go out of your way to help those who you feel a special bond. Probably bestfriend or someone you love.
You cannot always be there for everyone.
Its fine and it’s completely right to help people in need around you, especially the ones whom you are dear too, but they should also understand that you have a life too to be managed, we can’t heal people completely, healing oneself is a self responsibility no matter what, healing comes from the person enduring it not… No one else can heal you
We all are broken peices of puzzles, waiting for the perfect fit in the picture, we are rowing on a same destination yet with different routes, hence he should understand this.
First take care of yourself. Everything comes after that. If you think it will worsen ur own state then just leave.
Well Well Well, once upon a time my friend broke up with his girl and that time I was going verrrrry heavy depression or anxiety, the situation was very bad and out of controlled that in the middle of night whenever my anxiety hit me I left my home and went for a walk alone in the middle of nowhere, that time when my friend was in bad condition, i got to know later when he called me and was crying then a moment I realised how bad is your situation you always stand beside your friend so just help your friends and your friends will help you when you require 💌
Wow… That’s really impressive. But maybe I am not as strong as you.
