Hey, yesterday it was more than three days I didn’t call her but I just can’t stop myself and I call her and we talked more then 2 hrs and that call was last long till 5 a.m in the morning. I just told her everything that what I was over thinking about her even I told her that you are my villain in my mind . and she was little bit upset that she don’t even know what the f*** is happening and I make her villain in my story. but yesterday few things I came to know that I clearly tell her that in my life you are important to me. But I know that i m not that much important to you. but later I ask her tell me straight yes or no that am I imp to yoy? and she told me yes . That I m not that much imp to her and that hurt me little. I was dependent on her like have expection from her. but yesterday we both was discussing about our ex and even she got cheated in her past. But yesterday in middle of conversation she was ready to msg him (her ex). And I was shocked. Then realized it it will take time and things will be OK.but apart from this how should I stop giving her importance?
anonymous @literally_me
She’s not wrong from her side because she needs someone to understand and as you give her a lot of importance she consider that person to be you… But at the end of the day you’ll end up hurting yourself so you should better focus on yourself because she’s not into you …
Yes she not into me but I m but now it’s like I m convincing myself that I will get better. I will get who will love me and treat me like I m doing right now.
But this will take time
anonymous @literally_me
Yes … Try interacting with new people… And understand that she isn’t the one… it helps a lot
Yes but till I was connected to her. So that’s why I thought of her anything if anything happens. And you know that makes me happy but I don’t know why she won’t understand that I m putting so much effort.
anonymous @literally_me
But you know that your efforts are not worth this right … !! She won’t understand because she’s not having feelings for you and she is already putting efforts for someone else!!
