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@isaacbian

Hey y’all

Today I’m done with my family. I feel I want to k!ll myself bc they invade my privacy, and this happened on 13th April. This all happened bc of a damn gc I joined. And I’m only 14, and to myself, I already know the real side of the world. I’m tired of my family checking my phone everyday, I just want a new family… I’m done to my Oldest sister, and my dad. I hate my dad and I don’t have the audacity to talk to my dad and my oldest sister to stop invading my privacy. Im gay and I’m afraid to tell to my family. I want to k!ll myself so that this pain in the ass would never bothering me again.

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@daisyblah

Hey hey buddy. See. I’m gay too. And i have been there where you are. I’m from a very Orthodox family and like they keep invading my privacy as well.
You know you can’t come out right now unless and until you make sure to be independent and safe. Now that you are just 14 . Keep it low-key.
Like if you have a partner or even not. You have to be more more careful about yourself.
My favorite part of being gay is i feel like a spy and only god knows how many near death experience i have had🤣.
I’m not out even now and i also have someone so it becomes more hard.
Just leave no evidence.
You know you can’t change your family. They just are like this because they are taught to be like this. From their surroundings or from their parents or whatever.
You have to make sure that they don’t doubt you.
You have to be in a closet i know it can be super overwhelming sometimes but you have no other option my buddy.
So tell them bring it on.
Keep your phone clear all the time.
Be ready all the time.
Like literally all the time.
Don’t make any impulsive moves in rush or the game will end.
And I’m here buddy. We are together in this. We will sail through this.
Lots of love

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Anonymous

So there are two approaches you can follow either ashran or Daisy’s advice .
If you think you can make them understand go for it.
If you think you can’t be a spy😁

Abeer Setthi @pranum

hi buddy,
i know life can be tough sometimes,
i think you should calm down first and killing yourself will do you no good,
if you think that your privacy is being invaded just tighten the security of your device like adding a strong password and try to keep your devices away from your family, also you can move all the data you don’t want to you show them to an external storage device and hide it somewhere safe.
hope you understand
have a great day

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