Hey whom so ever reading this I wanted to share what I am feeling right now ,from past one year I am in a relationship with a guy who is elder than me like six years in the starting we were friends then I confessed that I started to like him but then he did not have same feelings for me because he had a break up from a relationship of three and half years ,after two months he told me that he wants to be in a relationship with me and he wants to marry me . Everything was fine but from past 5-6 months nothing is right and last month he told he don’t have attachment to me because he is not sure that we will end up marrying so he don’t want to get hurt if we break up due to family issues and he just ignores my messages whenever I ask him to talk to me or meet me and he still says that he loves me but his actions are so confusing ,I want to be with him because I love him so much but I am getting hurt daily because of his behaviour so guys tell me what can I do ???
Hey!
That’s a bug age difference but doesn’t matter much. If he not treating you right it’s better for to to leave him, cuz I feel those are just excuses . He is not sure of the relationship he is worrying about the future and spoiling your present, I think he has lost interest, I mean if he loves he would do anything to get u back. He has taken you for granted , he says he loves u but what is he doing about it. I mean in the end it’s your decision this is my opinion, never beg for the bare minimum.
All the best ❤️
If he tells you that he loves you he gotta show it. Action is very important. Move on girl he’s clearly not interested. Asking you to marry and treating like this lol imagine your life later. Move on. You deserve love. Where you feel loved.
Good that he at least agreed that there is a possibility that you guys might not end up getting married, that means he is not ready to fight or go against his parents wish or for that matter himself… And even though nobody is wrong in this situation sometimes we have to leave someone behind… If he truly loved you he will stick around no matter what but this isn’t the scenario in your case so don’t beg for his attention or ask him to stay… And when he has clearly mentioned and is also showing through his act, he is distancing himself from you… Stop asking for love, care, affection, sympathy… This is not how it works… It is truly difficult to go through it all but trust me time heals everything… Just believe in yourself, work on yourself, keep yourself as your 1st priority and see how the things change around you.
Hey I had a breakup from a long distance relationship a month ago for similar reasons as yours. We were in relationship for 2 years. But he was always unsure about us…he left me Manyy times and then came back. Now the thing that I regret the most is that I let him come back all those times. It doesn’t matter if it’s long distance or not…you deserve the kind of treatment you’re offering. I’ll highly recommend you leave him before he does. If he left you it’ll hurt alot more than the latter.
hey ! age difference should not matter, because after all its about love !! but honestly, if he is not treating you right, he doesn’t deserves you at all. and love is not meant to give you daily hurt, it is to bring out the best version of you!
I understand that you love him and you want to stand by him but if you look from his perspective it clearly shows that only his words are conveying that he loves you and his actions aren’t. There is no point in being with such a human. Separate from him and move on gurl! you’ll be happy eventually … ik it is not going to be easy but for one thing that i can tell you is, IT IS GOING TO BE WORTH IT !
remember, with or without a king, YOU ARE A QUEEN!
YOU GO GIRL. Trust the universe and its timing, it will all be okay
love and light💕
I am stuck too in a relationship with a guy im considering to have an arranged marriage, but he is willing to put in the work to make it work. And trust me it shows when the efforts arw genuine. But this one clearly says he doesnt see you as a part of his future
So i would suggest ditch his ass. It might hurt momentarily. But then both of you will not lose love and respect for
your own self and for each other.
And trust me age is never a factor. Previously people used to get married to spouses who were much older to them and they had pretty much successful marriages too. Even now. Being of the same age doesn’t guarantee happiness. At the end of the day its the happiness that matters when you are with them.
