Hey! There’s a thing i mean my boy whom i literally love a lot cheated on me twice in 2 years and like i forgave him but the thing is its been almost 2 years from it now and im still not able to get over it i mean i love him but there’s a time i overthink like crazy like wt if it happns again i try my best to trust him n i do trust him but tht trauma isnt leaving me alone n idk how to react to this idk if its my mistake or m just hurting inside n its affecting my mental health a lot like i always find myself stressing over it i dont know wt to do
I know you cannot just stop thinking about it. But trust me forgiving a cheater is not a mature act. Try being with him as well as moving on. By doing this you’ll not miss him and when the day comes when you finally don’t care ABT him. Leave him. Talk to people , probably other people of your age. It’ll help
Aaditya @whoaaditya
Well, holding on too long may make him realise but it will tighten in your hand and make you bleed. And looking at him cheating, you are in early 20s, there’s more to life, make more friends, forget this one guy! Because he will hurt you again over and over again, if he really loved you he wont have ever done this to you! And now when you know he fcuked you over twice you should seriously let go and let the person who’s been in love with you for a long time, maybe your just friendzoned bestfriend or a close family friend! In Early 20s you have a lot to do!
