Hey there
You know my best friend once told me that my boyfriend is physical with someone i mean that girl, which i asked my boyfriend how can u do this what’s not… But after 1 yr of thinking all this i get to know while talking to that girl as it was harming my mental health i get to know that Whtever my bestie told me was not the truth he was lying, because when i asked him about all this he changes his statement thrice 🙂 but kahi na kahi aab esa hogya hein ki, 1 saal se stalking jo hu rhi hah woh dono bahut baar same time par online dekhe hah kabhi kabhi i send him msg to see weather it gets delivered or not but nhi hota tab sukoon milta hah but ya esa chalta raha toh kese chalega i am just destroying my life what to do please help me out, what should I do
Your bestfriend planted a seed of insecurity in your mind. And now you’re using that to ruin your relationship. Don’t act so possessive, if you trust your guy stop this stalking thing.
I tried but i dont know how just feel like they’re talking to each other, i dont know what i am doing
You need to overcome this problem, it’s not a good thing to doubt your bf if he’s loyal to you. Think positive or just say everything to your bf about it
Saying him he will reply let’s end it
If he can say such thing to you then do you think it’s right be in this relationship forcefully? How can he give up on you so easily if he loves you?
I don’t know i think the problem is me i m overthinking it, its being 4 years still on these things i should stop thinking all this can u please help me what to do?? How to frgt, i talked to him he said its being 1 yr now nd you’re still into it, i dont even know her now, if you don’t have trust i can’t do Nything coz you also effect my mental health because u trusted ur bestie rather then me still i m avoiding nd frgting nd after this much efforts from my side you’re still on tht so better we should end this, stay happy don’t effect ur life nd m still regretting all that he said this
You’ll ruin your beautiful relationship by doing this. What more do you want if he himself assure you that he’s completely loyal to you and he’s never cheated.
It’s about you, you are actually overthinking about this. Yes sis I’ll help you forget it and overcome this problem!!
How suggest me 🙂
See first of all you’ll have to make yourself understand what is important for you? Your guy leaving you because of your insecurity or you overcoming it in order to save this. Start spending some more time with him which’ll create a security in your mind that yeah he’s with me most of the time so he can’t be somewhere else or talking to someone else. Next, when you’re not with him just engage yourself in activities that’ll make you not overthink of him or develop trust issues. Keep checking on him in a subtle way if you feel that way. And lastly, do talk to him once in awhile about your progress regarding this and don’t overburden your guy with all your insecurities coz it might affect his mental health also. It’s not like you have to hide it but do it in a correct way.
Thank you so much ❤️ for this 🥺if nydy i need help how will i find u
We can connect on some other platform if you’re okay with it?
Ya am oky with it
Give me ur fb I’d
I don’t use fb, tell me if you have an instagram or snapchat account
Give ur insta I’d
Wanderer @wanderer_
You are feeling insecure and jealous which is somewhat natural in a relationship,
What you simply need is an outlet to hear you out, and talking to other girls is normal, even if he talks to 50 other girls he won’t go to them
You have to trust him, cause if you cannot trust him then there is no point in the relationship
And throw that pathetic and awful bestfriend, if he/she lied they clearly don’t want your happiness
And just talk to your boyfriend about this too, let him know that you are feeling insecure BUT also let him know that you are not asking him to change or stop. You are just sharing your insecurities with him and trust me it will help a lot
And for sharing and feeling better feel free to reach out
I understand what you’re saying but you i asked him not to talk to this girl because this girl is like great at stealing boys see ik this sounds negative but it’s her nature nd he told me that he don’t talk to her he don’t even know her but i saw some screenshots of him nd her doing video call idc whom he talk to what he is doing but lying something to me?? How will how can i trust him even he is saying the truth? Thts the point here is when i asked him he said he was scared of me nd said the lie
Wanderer @wanderer_
See if he is hiding that he is talking to someone then it Is a problem and you being suspicious is okay
But you should talk to him clearly for once and for all
And if your bf can be this easily taken away do you really think it is worth holding onto,
When in a relationship you shouldn’t be worried that someone else can swoop your bf away because you are with them and they with you
How can anyone else take it away
I don’t know i think the problem is me i m overthinking it, its being 4 years still on these things i should stop thinking all this can u please help me what to do?? How to frgt, i talked to him he said its being 1 yr now nd you’re still into it, i dont even know her now, if you don’t have trust i can’t do Nything coz you also effect my mental health because u trusted ur bestie rather then me still i m avoiding nd frgting nd after this much efforts from my side you’re still on tht so better we should end this, stay happy don’t effect ur life nd m still regretting all that he said this
Wanderer @wanderer_
He is not wrong, that bestie of yours was manipulating and that was very wrong,
Do you want to be with this guy ?
Be honest,
And if you are uncomfortable talking about this here let me know we can switch to other platforms.
I want to be with him, Offcourse facebook give me ur id
Wanderer @wanderer_
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Wanderer @wanderer_
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