Hey !
Not feeling bad…grateful for that but still feeling a bit depressed seeing all the competition around. I am a student right now trying to pursue a goal but others are so much better than me at things and already have so many achievements that it makes me so demotivated and convinces me that I should give up coz going any further wont help. I dont know y but I am just not able to get the results to things. I am so lonely in this professional journey of mine. I have none who could understand my needs right now and help me and guide me for it. Its just me and my laptop all the time in one corner of the room. I am really afraid to fail again. Day by day JUST ONE THING IS REASSERTING ITSELF THAT YOU JUST ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE NO SPECIAL, YOU ARE NO BEST AS YOU USED TO THINK AND THAT YOU ARE GOOD FOR NOTHING…YOU ARE JUST MEDIOCRE…CAN NEVER DO OR BE THE BESTTT !!! It hurts my ego. It is making me sad to realize that I am actually no best 😔…as I used to think that I am hardworking, good in studies…nothing nothing at all…real competition is realized when we start competing with the world and not just some ppl. Actually I always had the best in terms of schooling and crowd around me but just couldn’t make into some top colleges of my country. And that one failure is seeming to decide everything from then on…that I wont be now able to cope up with that one failure. I feel so sad that despite a lot of hard work…am not able to produce results while others like me are achieving what I aimed for myself. That sucks to see. Why am I so desperate to get the best job!!! I dont wanna have any competition. I get scared if I see someone from same course as mine achieving things. That makes me realize how I am working hard but not may be in the right direction. And the thing is that I know the right direction but am just not able to do anything about it. Just dont know the reason to this that WHY THE HELL I MYSELF AM NOT DOING THE RQD STUFF TO BRING THE RESULT. May be Im just too done being alone just with my laptop. May be I need an equivalent companion that we may both together prepare for the stuff…motivate each other and get the results.😞 Or may be the reason why I dont wanna try is to avoid hurting my ego again and lower my self esteem even more after one more failure. NEED HELP TO OVERCOME THIS 😔😔
All are better than me in someway but i may be way better than them in other things. Some people are good at school others are good at life. This is a common thought that comes to all, me too, when i have nothing to do sitting idle then i just again wake next day and all the bad things seem to wipe out. All the feelings are part of ypu ming, they will come and go, one should know that where to pay attention and where not.
True that ! But sometimes you want a thing really badlyyy…and you actually worked reallyyy hard for itt…but again can see it not happening…It sucksss…Im just tooo pressurised right now coz of my college along with my side hustles. Time is so less for the thing but stuff to be done is so huge in amt…thats convincing me even more to quit, but don’t want to…so this constant conflict is making me maadd 😣
I have hectic schedule these days, a load things to do and i still got 24 hours, no less no more. When you are given two options one hard and other difficult, you always go for the easy one, just like that , you are going for the option to quit because it’s easy. Everybody do so, even me. I quit on the times when the things were too easy for me and now I regret them. There’s a lor difference between pleasure and happiness and the one who understands it will aleays be happy just as you will be. Just believe in yourself
Hi,
Justsmile can u please just smile first…
Okay…
See,
It may sound harsh or bitter
N i am extremely sorry for it…
But not every dream,not every aim,not every aspiration of an individual can be fulfilled…
Friend,
Outcome is never never in our hand…
Giving our best shot
Putting 100% is what we can do
Rest outcome depends on several factors
Luck also plays a huge role…
Certain things are beyond our control
So we shouldnot focus on those…
Just focus on what you can do
N do your best…
Failures are part of life…
See comparing with others will only give you more discomfort n pain…
Always compare with self
Try to be best version of self…
Focus on self
That is what leads to real growth in life…
Yes there is immense competition…
We all are part of a race…
But can we keep running full time…
Taking pressure ,taking so much stress will not help you dear one
It will only aggravate your problems…
You need to stay calm
To give ur best…
Let me also tell you one thing through my personal experience…
Not every brilliant student finds success
Scoring high marks in exams
Or being a topper
Or being excellent doesnot guarantee success…
U couldnot make it to top colleges in country
N that has demoralised you…
But not everyone who passes out from a top college or premier institute will be successful
U can study in a avg college
Score avg but still be very very successful
Just have 100% faith in urself
Keep working hard
Pls donot overthink
Donot overburden your mind…
If so many thoughts will keep going on in your mind
Do you think you will be able to concentrate
N how will you perform if you dnt concentrate…
So pls focus on one thing at a time…
You can do it
You will do it…
Dear friend,
To add to
Expectations hurt alot…
N not just from others but expectations from self too hurts alot…
So pls dnt over expect…
Just take life little less seriously
Just GO WITH THE FLOW…
Try to motivate urself…
You may listen to some motivational speeches
Or read inspiring content if that works for you…
You know many ppl feel the void that you are feeling
Very very normal
N then we hope for a companion
But not all are fortunate to have someone who will genuinely be their strength…
Anyways
Good luck to you…
May u find lots of strength,power…
May you be blessed with a perfect companion…
May all ur desires come true
Take care of urself…
Stay stress free.
Thank You soo much for this. I know comparison wont help…and I think I need to practice this art of trusting my own pace. 🌸
