Hey , new here :') 
well i feel totally lonely , because I'm a nerd most of the people around me hate me , specifically at school even if it's online they just keep teasing me . 
Because of this i feel so cynic about any idea or any friendship request , I feel all of them are pretending that they like me but they have just put on a friendly abnormal mask 
any idea how to get rid of them ?! 

Just ignore them.....not everything needs a reaction.....and when you ignore them for long enough then they will take a step back on their own....

But if they still keep teasing you for however you are...you need to be assertive about your opinion and stop them from doing it.....just ask them to STOP....nothing more nothing less(speaking from personal experience)

Hey u don't need fake people in your life as it will continously demotivate you and distract you from your life goals...

So just focus on your goals and make them all feel guilty for their behavior....


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Lonely

I had sex with a guy, and we laid in bed for hours just talking about anything and everything. It was really nice. He let me know that he was in my corner and that I could come to him to talk and he’d have my back. I’m not used to this. But I really enjoyed it 

Life

I have an issue!! Need advice... there is this girl i really loved! (I still do) but we had our ups and downs... on and off, again and again, and that usually makes me sad, but recently my homies tried to set me up with a girl... we had a whole day to hangout with each other.. (she likes me alot) she is really attractive but im not over the girl i used to be with... they all know about this but still they want this to work out!! The issue is that new girl is super close to one of my homies, if things went south, this will be really bad for all of us!! But i don't love her, how can one survive in this situation??? My mind says its alrr to try this new girl out... but at the same time, i know im not gonna spend my life with her... (im kind of a guy who is into the idea of "date to marry") 

I dont want to hurt her... but now everyone thinks that  me and the new girl can really work out 

Relationships

Kiska hai ye tumko intezaar, mai hu naaa///

Music

I came back after 2 month holidays to my medical college here in telangana and i feel terribly sick and homesick again as I was in the 1st year it's my 2nd yr now but I feel very alone yet again.
I regret not getting a college near my home state in North..
It is expensive to travel for me again and again in flights so even going home makes me sad and financial pressure.
Right now I'm feeling very sad and i feel like leaving it all and running away forver and just stay with my mom and sister and then not coming back.
Godd please help me please.. all my batchmates are now settled here it's our 2nd year but not for me and i feel very sick .
I regret causing my parents and myself this much pain.


Mental Health

I hate my mother. I'm 27...not some edgy teen as it may appear. I feel my reasons a re valid..but then again not many people like me either. I m so angry for her "assistance" in making me the self loather that I am...her denial doesn't make it any better. I wish she would reconcile for the hurt shes given me..not physically or sexually like my father...who's a bigger piece of shit...but mentally for waning my spirit down...which as a female hurts worse. I don't even feel like a person ..just an empty shell with sparks of emotion here an there that often go into flames with anger. 

I am a terrible person for it. But I don't care anymore I need to admit it to make the hurt go away...people wish they had a mother... I couldn't care less about mine...I'm an angry soul and it's apparent. I sound terrible but it's liberating. Not every family is worth being around. And besides they shut me out when they made me into this monster...it's their own fault and I'm suffering for it. 

Anger Issues

So a week ago I confessed my feelings to my crush. Mostly because I wanted to know where I stand with him. It was very frustrating to not know what to expect. I had been getting mixed signals. As a result, he told me that I am cute and sweet and as much he would love to know me more, he has other priorities and doesn't want to focus on "these things". And I do understand, that man literally has a lot of responsibility. Now I feel that life is always like that and it never lets us rest. There is a lot of responsibility on me too which are lesser than him, but I didn't care about that before telling him my feelings. I know now that simply saying that it's not the right time is just about delaying your happiness because we never really are free. I do understand that at this point when we both are young, career occupies the highest priority but that doesn't mean that you can't let yourself fall for someone and delay a possible happiness with them even if it isn't among your top priorities. To me it feels like he either doesn't like me at all or is afraid of it. I even told him that I wasn't sure what I wanted since I don't know him very well. I won't try to rush things in any case and I was very honest with what I felt. Even I didn't expect to find someone like him and it just happened. I didn't want a relationship but he is the one person I was willing to consider that possibility with and I was hoping that it can turn into something beautiful. But even when I confessed it didn't feel enough, he definitely did not make it clear if he ever felt something for me. I wanted to ask but then I thought what's the use when he is not even ready to be in a relationship. I don't know what to do now. We ended our chat that we will be friends and hw assured me that nothing would be weird between us but I don't think it would help me move on. Also, I don't want to lose him as a friend. It looks like a peaceful resolution but I don't how it will turn out. A lot of confusion for me right now.

Crush

I don't know but I often sometimes I do feel like alone.....and like there's something wrong with me....cuz everyone just leaves.....like why tf it happens....it just makes me feel sad!!

Adulting

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