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Anonymous

hey I’m in trouble. I just want to know what you guys think about it…i have a friend bestf type. I share everything with him. He proposed me and i said no at first and after few days my ex texted me something and my mood got ruined i literally can’t get over him.we were in a relationship for like 2 yrs and he left me cause of long distance. It’s very hard for me to get over it. That’s why I said my bestf yes after a few days and now I’m regretting saying him yes cause he loves me sm and i can’t stop thinking about my ex. I literally love him very much and i can’t tell my bestf about it cause it will hurt him. Im not able to give him full attention and yk the reason. What should I do? Should i date him or should I tell him that I want to breakup (I’m also confused that I love him or not cause i don’t wanna lose him, he’s my bestf and ofc i love him but i don’t know i love him as friend or we can be more than friends)
What do you guys think about it…please HELP ME:/

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@ype_aka

I think it’s a big mistake on your part that you are keeping your best friend in the dark.
Please please don’t hurt your best friend…he doesn’t deserve this.

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Anonymous

Actually he knows about my ex and that I’m going through sm but i did a mistake that i texted my ex again before some days(i regret doing it but i can’t help it) and if I’ll tell him about it then obviously he’ll feel bad about it. I don’t want to hurt him…due to my ex sometimes I become too mean I say the things to him which I shouldn’t say then also he comes and says sorry to me. I really feel bad about this and I’m trying to get over it but i can’t

@ype_aka

I really feel bad for your best friend.
He is such a genuine guy…why does this happen with good people.
And why do girls go to toxic boys.
Please go hug your best friend…and be with him forever.
You are lucky to have him.

@ype_aka

I think you should Date your best friend.
Get rid of your Ex.

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Anonymous

umm yess thnq:)

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Anonymous

okayyy:)

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Shivraj @shivrajsingh

all you gotta do is confront your bestf everything and get over your ex. it’ll be a mess but it’s gonna bring your peace and that’s what matters.

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Anonymous

yeaaa:)

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@himanshujain

Do what your heart says … ,
It’s only you who knows the best for you and your bestfriend

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Anonymous

um okayy:)

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Anonymous

Accept your bestfriend, his efforts and love will make you fall in love one day and after that day you will have a beautiful life

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Anonymous

hope so:)

vaishnavi @vaishnavivaishu

If you feel your ex spoiled your presence and keep in note dont do this for your best friend. Attachment and love are different.
The thing is you are attached to your ex(that’s why you are missing him still)
You are in love with ur best friend (that’s why you are indecisive)
Don’t rebound now take time for yourself.
Move on first and remember replacement is not love.
You need to heal first

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Anonymous

um yes thnq:)

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

See as ur ex is already left you for a Reason so it’s better to move from him so that u will be happy in life and the 2nd thing is that someone is loving you so much and he is ur bestie and now u told yes to him so think about him is he good for you or not or is he match ur vibe or not bcoz if u leave him then u will lose love and even friendship which can’t be gained again so think and take time to make a good decision

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Anonymous

Um yes I’ll think abt it:)

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

Good

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