Hey! I really need someone to advice me, I have no friends to talk to and it’s hard for me to talk to my parents. My boyfriend keep asking me to realise myself and asking me to change and said all those hurtful words to me. Something like stubborn, sensitive, hypocrite, very negativity, if u don’t change u gonna suffer in the future and etc. Most of the fights he keep saying all hurtful words to me and one day I asked him why u can’t see any changes from me ana always keep saying the same thing during our fight. He said because he didn’t see any changes from me and he said he can’t see me realise myself. When he said all those words, I only can shut my mouth and listen to what he said. After when we fight, he always said I’m sorry, but I don’t know is it real or not because every time he keep saying the same thing. Every time I need to take it all the hurtful words. What should I do ? Am I wrong ?
Look it’s almost the same shit I’ve been through he fights with you says hurtful things and then says sorry it’s not right and yes if you feel like you wanna know more about yourself then take your time you shouldn’t be forced to do stuff like that and if he is suffocating you or forcing you, break up with him, ik you love him but he is not right if he doesn’t know how to talk to you when he angry
niti agti @aragni
Is it love if he wants to change u?
I m sorry to say that but are u not the same person he once was glad to have like u were? I think u r super sensitive and that’s why u dont reply when he shouts. U r a beautiful person as u are. Embrace ur own beauty. Changing the materialistic behavior is ok but changing ur character as how u feel emotions and stuff , u can do that for a period of time but later u will start getting frustrated . Then u will start hating people who did that to u. I think u r getting whta I m trying to say. U can get better at cooking, dressing , bla bla bla but if u like yellow as ur favorite color I will stay the same always.
Focus on urself. U will get answers better. And I m here always for a chat.
