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Anonymous

hey
I just want to share my feelings here and feel like someone is reading or knowing about them because I don’t really have anyone that I can send this message to. I do have friends and people that may be open to listening to me but I never feel understood and I don’t like the idea of me being weak or dramatic.
people always tell us to love ourselves and how it’s the only way out but how am I suppose to love and appreciate myself if every person I have ever loved made me feel like I don’t deserve to be loved.
every love story I had made me feel worthless and most of them weren’t even considered love stories. every time I had to tell myself to stop trusting people and expect everything from them and every time I broke my promise and believed in people to get my heart crashed.
I met this boy at a party, he kissed me and it was my first kiss and I wasn’t even able to tell him that it was my first kiss because I was ashamed.
it didn’t stop at kissing but I was so drunk and I lost control.
I tried to talk to this guy after and he was nice at the begging but then he told me that he wasn’t looking for anything serious because he doesn’t have the time. he was honest but it broke my heart. I didn’t expect him not to want me I showed him a part of me that no one else saw. I’m having a really hard time because I keep blaiming myself and regretting what happened. every time I get rejected a part of me leaves me forever and my relationship with myself gets more complicated. I want to be loved the way I love and it’s killing me.

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@shreetech

See firstly, you don’t need to overthink stuff, things happen and sometimes they dont happen the way you want to be and that’s what we have to accept. Someone will like you just the way you are, even i had my failures and it was hard to be liked by someone but at some point you have to do stuff for yourself do things which make you happy that constant fear of people rejecting will just drain you, so firstly do what you find your happiness with. It might be movies or music or a ride. Remember you need to be treated well. Since you’re special…

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Anonymous

Hey lovely stranger,
Thank you for being here ♥️ It’s actually true that doing something we’re passionate about could help us be more powerful and peaceful. I deal with a lot of my problems by painting and I’m so proud of my art because it comes from the real me that i don’t treat as good as she deserves. I’m learning and growing and nice people like you make me want to try more.
Hope you’re doing good,
Thank you 🙏

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@yohoho

i also never had a relationship. it sucks really but self love is the thing , you got to find something that make you confidentwho you are. you arelovely. like for me dancing in front of mirror makes me confidentand happy. i ove cuddling strays . i am sure you also has something gifted. do it . be happy. happiness is a choice. you will be amazed love you and feel free to talk :)

Roxta @roxta

See this heart commits mistakes that it should’nt which costs a lot , which can be easily seen in your case . All I can suggest you is my personally tested method which seems to be difficult but it works which is that you should start getting distracted from this shitty stuff by focusing on your passion. Time heals everything. Time healed my pain and will heal yours as well. Feel free to reply , I also need someone to talk to 🤗

@wie

I am sorry you’ve to go through this. Your pain is huge and I understand exactly what you’re going through, because I’ve been there. I believe that love is the most powerful thing, it holds the potential to change our entirety. You are a strong person, because only a brave person can choose love again after it has treated us wrong. However, it’s important that we learn, that people in the world are messed up. They say things they don’t mean, they do things they don’t mean and it has so much to do with themselves and not us. Everyone someone leaves, I question what is the life they are chasing that they can’t have being with me? But something entirely changed, when I reserved the question, what is the life I’m chasing that I can’t have without being with them? People leave, but it’s not because you lack something. You are strong and deserve an ocean full of love. But I want you to make this about yourself. When people leave, I want to you to believe that it was them, who are not prepared enough as i am. And try taking time off for yourself. I won’t say you’ll start loving yourself immediately, but I want you to try little things. Pamper yourself, buy yourself food, small gift, write yourself letter, tell yourself you are awesome. A lot of people have already left because they were not ready enough to be with you, would you also leave yourself like that? Or would you take time opportunity to love the person who wouldn’t leave. We are here for you, for the beautiful and strong woman who now will learn to love herself, irrespective of how the world has treated her. Sending love ❤️

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Anonymous

hey,
thank you very much for these words you made me cry (in a good way). I’ll keep everything you said in mind and try to work more on my self-love and self-appreciation and kinda date myself ;) I think it will be fun.
thank you again and hope you’re doing well.
you have a beautiful heart <3

@wie

I’m glad I’ve been if some help. Keep growing. Sending love ❤️

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Anonymous

U will get there have faith on yourself…n I just wanna tell u I do understand your situation n the thing is you love someone as u wanted to be loved but you are giving everything u have to everyone else except yourself try putting yourself, prioritise yourself first as u will priorities someone else, try to understand yourself better focus on your needs, focus on yourself right now explore each n everything about you n then let someone else enter in your life trust me u will be happiest.but until then be happy on your own, enjoy your own company basically date yourself n then when u will think or feel ready to date someone else then let them in …but take control of your life, set healthy boundaries for yourself, and about blaming n regretting it’s happening bcoz u r not allowing yourself to forgive for the mistakes u did n hey that’s completely fine this things takes time but don’t beat yourself too much forgive yourself.Be Happy n don’t let someone else take control of your life n emotions. Take care n love yourself as u would love someone else…

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@justhereforu

hey there beautiful , okay firstly its okay to feel unloved but uk wat the real story is ?so let me tell u a story . read it this story twice if needed okay ?
so once upon a time there was very sweet innocent girl . obviously like u . her name was ME and she was in love with this person named MYSELF . everytym she got gift , she bought a dress or whenever she got happy . she used to give her half happiness to this person MYSELF . it was a strong bond. but then one day another person named HIM entered in ME’s life . HIM was tall , strong , handsome and bold . just the way ME was . she started to spend all the time with HIM instead of MYSELF . she thought HIM also felt the same way . and started to avoid MYSELF .
this poor MYSELF started feeling lonely, sick , ignored . heartbroken . coz even that MYSELF shared a part with ME which no one knew he had . MYSELF was obviously a best frnd of ME and was in love with ME . but on the other hand ME hasn’t realiZed her true feelings for MYSELF and everytym she fell for a wrong person like HIM . everytym she ignored MYSELF and gave her happiness to someone else they broke it into pieces . everytym this poor MYSELF had to come to help ME heal . but still she always broke apart . untill one day this poor , frustrated and injured MYSELF came in hurry to meet ME . ME saw that MYSELF was injured and needed help she went and asked HIM to help . HIM promised to
help but never returned . poor ME she went back to help MYSELF . but until ME could return MYSELF was fallen on ground fainted becoz everytym she left ME left a part of MYSELF broke . then ME sitting on the chair held a hand of MYSELF which was lying on the bed . ME sat there beside MYSELF almost the entire day . sad . lonely . messed up . helpless . soon she saw was a miracle . every wound of MYSELF started heeling . MYSELF started coming back to his senses . ME became happy and she also understood that her only best frnd , live and well wisher was MYSELF . from that day ME started spending each every moment with MYSELF .
ME held hands of MYSELF so hard and promised to never leave . they had a great , unbreakable bond and trust . they where strong together becoz they were each other’s strength .

MORAL: never prioritize anyone above urself , even if it means walking away from ppls life or removing them from ur life . its okay to leave if its disturbing .

watever happened its okay . its okay that u expected this coz u were unknown from this cruel world but remember one thing from now on

ONLY LET PEOPLE ENTER UR LIFE IF THEY REACH TILL THE END POINT OF MAKING EVERY EFFORT TO STAY IN UR LIFE , EVEN IF U PUSH THEM AWAY . SATISFY UR SELF WITH THE TASTE OF TRUSTING TILL BURNING . which means don’t be available for them . don’t fall for an very ordinary effort that everyone makes for every other person . stay back . observe what different and how many efforts they r taking to reach till ur heart’s special place . until u cant trust them blindly don’t go to them … the right one will surely come till u . in simple language be an ONION ,
IF THEY TRY TO CUT U OR PEEL U THEY SHOULD CRY COZ THATS HURTFUL TO U . AND HAVE SO MANY LAYERS JUST AS AN ONION WHICH PROTECTS THE CENTER OF IT JUST THE SAME WAY PROTECT THE CORE OF UR HEART .

IF U WANT ANYTHING U CAN CALL ME IN THE EVENING {9326147291 }

trust me do this and see urself heal .❤️😊🤞😇❤️😊🤞😇❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous

Hey,
Sorry for replying late and thank you for taking the time to write this beautiful message.
I feel like just the idea of someone caring about the way you feel is very helpful, thank you❤️
I do think that i trust people easily and every time i say to myself “this person is different” and they always prove me wrong i try to find excuses but now i do know that the real problem is my relationship with myself. It’s so hard to heal tho, I’ve been trying but sometimes i break down and write long paragraphs about how disappointed i am so someone like you come along and me feel worthy again❤️

Hope you’re doing well and spreading more positive energy my friend
Take care of your beautiful heart ♥️

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@justhereforu

yaa welcome . i am so happy that it was helpful 😊

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