Hey, i hope everyone’s doing well.
Let me start like this… Please do not judge anyone basis of their color, looks or ethnicity… I’m a victim of that like happeen with me several times… Happened here as well… Making me realise and the way I felt is like there’s no place for people like me. I’m a guy and I’ve judged so many times. Can’t even explain the pain I felt… It happened recently as well. Can’t you atleast talk to the person and see how they are before you judge? Just coz he’s not white or not rich ? The feeling is pathetic. The self confidence is lost like forever in this situation.
People fear what they don’t understand. They cover up that fear with anger/hate towards the one they are fearful of.
Your self-worth isn’t dependent on the judgment of others.
Happened here as well… Making me realise and the way I felt is like there’s no place for people like me. I’m a guy and I’ve judged so many times.
To judge anyone it would require the knowledge of the data behind events spanning across the whole of existence - since the beginning of time (if that’s a thing). Judgment isn’t even a tangible thing.
You can’t change others, the rules which they play by are set for now.
So make up your own rules. Be in the world as if you belong there. How? Have goodwill towards all, including yourself, without any exception. Do it for the sake of your inner peace.
Can’t you atleast talk to the person and see how they are before you judge?
Some people are hypnotized by stereotypes. Some haven’t healed their past experiences with non-integrous people of different ethnicity. How they treat you isn’t a reflection of who you are.
The self confidence is lost like forever in this situation.
You need to let go of the grim pleasure you are getting out of playing the victim. Stop collecting injustice points. It is hard to listen to this and easy to shun it.
The world is the reflection of how you see it and what’s in your mind. If you let go of this victimhood it will be easy to live amid judgment. It won’t reduce the way you expect it, but you’ll stop encountering many of these judgemental people.
And, let go of wanting to change people. Humility and willingness are required for anyone to change. The question is are you willing to change?
When you hold a loving attitude towards others even they’d hesitate to judge you as much as they use to. It takes time to develop this style of living, and it’s worth the effort.
What do you think about that?
I don’t know what to say… feels like you are saying I’m making myself a victim and you don’t even know how much humility or how much careful I am in my life to make people not feel the same way… I live by my own principle of not judging. Anyways… It’s okay I guess… I’m used to it maybe I’ll get used to it much better.
I don’t doubt you lacking humility and consideration for people. It’s often people who suffer the most who develop the highest levels of empathy. They know experientially how hard it can be to live in a deficit of love.
What I was suggesting you change is to stop the hidden pleasure you may unconsciously get from being a victim. You are mature enough and you’ll realize this soon if you give this practice a try. It works my friend, one just has to be aware of it.
Does that make sense?
After reading this, I feel so sorry!
Pls don’t define your worth by the way others judge you.
Yk what it’s ppl job to judge the only thing we can do is to ignore.
We are best in our own ways.
Someday someone will appreciate you just the way you are without even you asking for it.
And gain that self confidence man, it should be not that low to just drown like that!
I’m used to it coz I’ve faced it multiple times… but sometimes it gets too much so I thought of Letting people know how it feels. Thanks!
