Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Hey there. Crying is great if done to relieve the pressure of grief. It’s therapeutic.
Is it possible that you secretly and unconsciously enjoy feeling like a victim to your situation?
Can you be okay with the heer25 who can’t feel good? Doesn’t that sense of you also deserve some love? You are being too hard on yourself right now.

Does your importance depend on what you think others think of you? Let’s assume you are deemed as important by a community and the next day everyone who knew you disappeared from the face of the earth. Would that mean you are not valid? Why do you feel your self-worth is dependent on others’ opinions of you? Let’s not mistake self-worth with competency.

Just by being you are worthy. Your existence is the gift of life. Life deems you to be and so here you are expressed as life. Change your thinking and the outer world will respond by looking up to you. If you don’t look up to yourself (as important) why would anyone else? This is my general observation and it could have errors as I don’t know you personally.

Can you let go of wanting to control others’ opinions about you? Right now you may seem to have hit a wall. Just surrender to that. Say “Ok wall you win”. At least relieve yourself of the burden of going through the wall. Life then stops opposing you when you stop opposing life. Can you give this a try even for a minute?

Does that make sense? Have a great day :)

Listen girl u r precious… kyon tumhe logon k opinion matter krte hain…love urself… q k jb tk tum khud ko pyar nhi kroge tb tk koi kuch b bolega tumhe affect krega .chill kro… dekho duniya k sbse acche insan b bn jao tb bhi koi na koi toh hoga jo tumse khush nhi hoga… log toh bhgwan ko bura bol dete hain hm toh fir insan hain…ye suicide jaisi stupid cheezein sochna bhi mat kbi…log mr rhe h bahr… tumhe life mili hai na kdr kro uski… acche kam kro jitne kr sko… tumhare parents isliye ni tumhe paal rhe k tum bolo muje meri life pyari nhi h… hota h aata h tym jb low feel kro ssb krte hain…main b krti hun. But fr b Acchi cheezon pe focus kro… mere pas khana h ghr h bht hai .roz bhgwan ka shukr kro…duniya dukhon se bhri pdhi hai bahr nikl k dekho kbhi…bhut life pdhi hai strong bno… apni kdr khud kroge tbhi koi krega… positive cheezon pe focus kro khud ko busy rkho nd jitna ho ske smile kro b aur dusro ko krao bhi…kr k dekhna accha lgega… ab ye mt sochna bhai ye lecture hi dene lg gyi… lecture ni hai bcche reality hai… chlo ab ftaft se smile kro…m waiting for ur reply…kuch bura lga ho toh sorry 🙏

I ws also feeling the same, some months back. Now let me get it straight for u.
First cry it out as much as u can for 5 hrs 10hrs or much but after that tell to urself that You shouldn’t be needing anyone to appreciate ur existence. Depending on any other individual for showing u ur worth or to make u happier is one of the worst thing u wud be doing for urself.
It’s ur own choice to keep urself happy irrespective of any other individuals appreciation. As long as u r happy with urself , no other person is required to make u feel better. They are a part of ur life, and not ur life and yes u are important, YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO YOURSELF

Hey… Good if you are able to cry. You know you have to live in this world not for your family friends or boyfriend but for yourself because you are here for a reason.