Hey, I am a 23 year old female but my parents treat me like a 15 year old girl.
They made me to resign the job i wanted to do and are forcing me to crack competitive exam and get into a government job which i have no interest in. I have tried explaining this to them but they dont seem to understand anything or rather they dont want to understand. They think that this is best for me. They force me to wake up 5AM whatever the occassion maybe to study. I am not even interested in the slightest. It gets frustrating cause I am not able to do anything, be independent, get a job . Being a young adult it feels like I am still in my teens because of these. And my emotions are overwhelming . It feels like I am not living my life. I have no other option just try for the competitive exam, get failed and then get married. I dont want to live my life this way. But the worst thing is I cant do anything about it and it gets on my nerves and I am so annoyed 24/7. I am disappointed in myself for not being able to do anything about it. Since these emotions are so overwhelming I want to cope up with these by cutting myself. IDK Im just going insane.
Tbh I don’t know how to handle this situation. Maybe someone else here can help you with this.
But for once I want you to forget what your parents want you to do. And now tell me that what you want to do in your life…
I just want to do a regular 9-5 job and be independent. I am not asking for more.
For that first you should have a job. So if you want to do a job then find one and then tell your parents that you have a job and you want to do that job. Yes it’s not as easy aa it seems by thinking or writing about it. But if you want to be happy or to achieve something you have to face difficult situations, that’s life. So do it!
they have forced me into doing a 2 years course and i dont seem to have the guts to rebel. i feel so bad. its like im not even living my life. there is no point.
Smile❣ @hythere1
Tbh I am kind of in a same situation. I opt. PCM(maths) in school and now for college I am studying agriculture which include all botany and it’s pissing me off. But for me it was my own choice(not like choice but i didn’t know at that time what should I do). And now I am working hard to make myself better in this field. My point of saying is that don’t take this course as it’s a burden but try to get something good from this. Everything we do in our life has a reason so if it’s your fate it has a reason. About your parents I feel so sorry to hear that they don’t understand you but Tbh I think that you should try to forget about them( forget means, forget the things that say to you ans that bother you). I don’t know that i am saying right thing or not cause I can’t understand the situation you are facing. So I a sorry if i am over pushing you😶. But I’d you want to talk more you can talk to me anytime. ( btw I am a girl🙂. So we are like friends so you can share anything)
the thing is im not even interested in it, thats the main point. I could do better if im interested though . I mean you are very optimistic “(Everything we do in our life has a reason so if it’s your fate it has a reason. )”. But i think we must live in the present right and the present is really aweful and i cant handle it.
Pray hard till your prayers are heard and answered .Hope evrything falls in place 🤞
thank you
