Hey … Hope you all are doing good…
Actually i don’t know why people change when we start to like them , make them as our priority.
2 year back when i was in the college i made a friend . In starting, everything was good but then he started to liking me but i don’t want to be in relationship because of my past experience so i said no we can be friends then everything was normal and okay but after some time i also started to liking him and on his birthday I said I like you but I don’t want relationship as you know my past . he was okay with that now when college ends he started business and it’s kinda long distance but now when i said okay let’s be in relationship he always be like no …"now things are different " and if i said that time then we could be but not know and i said okay let’s meet and discuss then he refuses and on the same day he went on his ex’s birthday . he always got angry on small things and taunt me every single time .
and sometimes i feel like he don’t even respect me then i asked him that “do you still love me” he said "more than anything " but i can’t be in relationship as i have my business and he don’t even call me now …
I have anger issues , i expect a lot , and i don’t want him to do these things to me as it makes me cry , sad and i don’t know
may be it’s all my fault
I’m sorry to hear that… But I know it can be hard to let go but imo he seems toxic and you should let him go. I was in the same situation last year but it became worse when he spread rumors about me being a playgirl/H0e and since I’m an anti-social I had trouble letting people know these were all false rumors, I was depressed for 2 months but eventually I just let it go, and started my spiritual journey and I’m better thn ever.The point is you should let go and look for someone better and if he can’t be with you now when you need/want him he’d have broken up/hurt you in the first time. And if you don’t wanna be in a relationship, find friends whom you can trust enjoy your life to the fullest 💖
Hey thank you for replying and making me feel good …
since i am anti social too and no-one has time… even my family don’t have time for me that’s why i got dependent on him want to talk to him i want someone listen but now he changed and he is not like he was before and it’s been 7-8 months he is kind of ignoring me… he goes on date and he doesn’t have even 2 mint in a day for me …