Baylom Earning @im_alone
Hey guys whoever reading this, I want to say… I’m not Well.
Actually there is girl in my college we are comfortable in talking we talk a lot whenever met… & I started Liking her.
But the Actual Problem is she is Introvert she never going to talk or text first with me. But I decided to not make her my girlfriend because of some reasons but we can stay a very good freinds.
How much should I go first to talk if we are freinds she should also come to talk…
Should I leave her “saying that may she is not interested in me”
Or I give some more time to our Friendship ?
naintara @nain1111
Give more time to ur frdship …may be …in my opinion…
Baylom Earning @im_alone
Can introvert girls never going to talk first even they in need ?
lucky kushwaha @happy_soul...
Instead of leave her… You must clear your thought to her… Maybe
Baylom Earning @im_alone
Bro I just want to make her my freind
Problem is whenever we met i handle the conversation & also start by me everytime… How much should i give time that she also will asking me questions we have a conversation bcoz i think that every relationship whether its freinds, brother-sister everything should be 50-50…
Which is not in our case.
lucky kushwaha @happy_soul...
Then you must let her know
That she also have to start conversation something… It feels better
Do you know if she is the same way with everyone…if she is …then it’s in her nature and she may take time to get close to someone…if it’s only to you… either she may not be as interested or maybe just nervous… maybe an open communication about this with her may help?
Baylom Earning @im_alone
As I know till now she have very less freinds[(2) girls] & I noticed that they even dont talk to each other. Means they not do that type of GUPSHUP that you and me do with our freinds. Thats also the reasons why she have no have a freind in boys. Only me is there who talk to her…
But now the situation of me with her is
She ignoring my messages 2-3 times and she not interested in talking at class/college. I mean how can she call my name to talk with me or call me… She is Introvert obviously what she can do just after the end of the leactures just ran for the train with his 2 freinds…
But if I talk to her she is Good but she not going to talk First…
& Also I have said that I have to engage her by keeping asking questions, If I ask 5 questions she ask me 1… So thats the situation If i not ask questions frequently IT WILL BECOME AWKWARD & UNCOMFORTABLE FOR HER… which I dont want…
Baylom Earning @im_alone
But as she is not responding to my messages… I’m not going to text her now because of the reason that (may she is not interested me now)
So if she not interested in me online. I’m thinking that how can be she interested in talking offline…
So I Decided that I’m not going to text her & not planning for go a walk to the station or offline talk…
Just waiting if she message me first or not atleast for 10 days.
Am I doing Right ?
Please Tell Me
You have really tried to be friends with her… but what you said i am confused whether she is an extreme introvert who is not into a social life at all or it could also be she is not interested…so i would openly talk to her about it if i were you and i liked her a lot… but you seem to know her well…if she is not interested and making no attempt or has communicated with you she is not interested don’t waste your time… though if she is an extreme introvert and she is interested to to be your friend it will be very difficult to maintain the friendship…with no effort from her side…so you gotta decide based on what you know
