hey guys, just found out something that shocked about the guy that i loved and thought loved me back. i think he moved on already just after a few months after telling me i am his world and  making me believe it. It hurts alot. its the first time i sat alone and really thought about it, that i lost him, for real. i cried alot and i am still sobbbing. How does life continue after this ? (like not a cheesy way) just that i feel so hurt, betrayed and stupid that i believed him and kept thinking about him every single day since the breakup and that we still have hope.. it seems like he tricked me
I feel really hurt 
Just any advice or anything anyone , i am really not looking for answers just reassurance that everything is going to be okay becuase i right now i feel like its never going to be

Anxiety

Hi new here

I had to breakup a 6 yr old relationship because the guy cheated for 2 years all the while he showed love but in breadcrumbs. I want someone with whom I can heal. 
I don't wanna fall weak and text him back. So if somebody is in a similar situation, can we just heal together? Keep each other updated throughout our process. Cry to each other maybe. 

3am Thoughts

Actually this is for an online frnd of mine...he and his wife is having a bad relationship.He really wan't to care for her but she don't like it,He;s crying and in a realy bad state he needs someone to talk to. How can i help him?


Adulting

So I met this guy from Omegle and we’re from the same country. We exchanged our social media accounts and knew each other for almost 4 years now. I’m an Aquarius and he’s a Capricorn (I know it’s not always about zodiacs :3). Anyway we’ve been talking on and off. I feel like I understand him but also not. We but have the same desire, having time for ourselves and sometimes flirting and stuff. For the past three years, he actually likes me and was planning to meet up soon. But suddenly on 2020 we migrated to another country. I actually like him a lot even though we don’t talk much. I just feel confused with what he’s showing me. Before I just want to check up on each other every once in a while, then I had the urge to crave more attention from him. Today I don’t really trust him now since we’re long distance from each other with different time zone. I overthink about girls around him. And just before 2022 we called each other with cute flirty stuffs and all. Then on the first of January, I stalked his instagram account. He mostly follow girls (which I knew). There was 
this one girl with 10k followers. He commented  on her latest post 2 days ago… he follows her but the girl doesn’t. He was basically feeling close or complimenting here through the comments. I just feel really used right now. I realized he manipulated me many times into thinking I was the only girl he was thinking. The man has 3,000 mutual friends on Facebook I mean come on. Should I continue talking to him or just drop it?

Relationships

So wow it’s gonna be a long one. 
Basically I broke up 1.5 years back with my boyfriend who I dated for about 2.5 years. I broke up because I wasn’t happy and after breaking up I found out he sexted another girl while we were dating. That fucked my mind so we didn’t speak for a year. Meanwhile I ended up dating my guy best friend. And i still am. And im honestly really happy with him he’s my comfort person for real. But now, recently I’ve got back in touch with my ex and we’ve honestly been very honest with each other and have started being on very good terms with each other. Today I found out he’s dating. His first after our break up. And honestly it’s really bugging me. But the point is I really don’t feel anything romantically for my ex? And I’m really happy in my current relationship. And I really cannot find out why this is happening and is it even normal and wtf  I suppose to do????????

It's been four months since I broke up with my
ex boyfriend, before him I had two long lasting
relationships (4 and 2years) and I met him by
chance, at first everything felt perfect as if
every piece of us was matching and I was
scared, I didn't want to get too attached but
then I fell Inlove with him, he was older than
me and he had the life I wanted to, he used to
live alone, had a good job and we have started
to create a life together mostly because he
was pushing me talking about living together,
creating a family and many things. I've always
looked for someone who wants to settle down,
that's why he was perfect, we matched each
other, he was looking to a family and ... I felt
happy but this didn't last long. He started to
mentally abuse me, we've descriverei to have
different ideas about life and he started to tell
me that I was wrong, I was needy, I was a
terrible person and nobody could love me just
because I was jealous of him taking home his
nine years ex and maybe sleeping together or
hiding while talking with him or just because
we only could see each other during weekends

(I used to live 2hr far away from him I live in
Italy and he lives in Switzerland) and I wanted
to stay close or just cuddle in the sofa and he
kept telling me that I was needy and taking all
his space that he needed space and so I kept
asking him 'how can I give you space' and the
answer was I don't know. I kept asking him ti
talk but he didn't he avoided everything and
only spoke about space, I need space and time
for me as if it was my fault for everything.
I lost 4kg and I couldn't stop crying because I
loved him but we couldn't understand each
other anymore, he created a wall hiding
behind 'it's not your fault but it's me that l'm
stressed and tired but to issues of life'. I've
started therapy, I felt completely lost and
awful, I felt as if I really didn't serve love and I
was a bad person as if what he kept saying
was true. My therapist made me realise who
abusive this relationship was and one night I
was crying myself out because we had to see
each either the next day but I didn't have the
strength to fight another time for no reason
so I called him telling him to stay where I was

that I love him more then myself but I couldn't
go on like this, that if we want to try to be
together we should find a compromise
because I'm the only one hurt and in the end
he dated that he cared about me but he
couldn't but mostly wouldn't change for me, as
if I've asked him to change (compromises and
self space were essential for him like he could
do whatever he wanted to but I can't say a
word about it) so I've told him that it was over.
He' e asked to to pack his things back and
send him and he did the same to my stuff and
I didn't hear him anymore. Not a word.
All of this just because now I'm happy, I feel
better and my life is going on, my life at
university is cool, I'm going out with my
friends and doing a lot of activities and I feel
better but I'm still madly Inlove with him. I got
my heart broken for the first time even if our
relationship was short I've lived with him, we
spent time together, I've designed his new
house (I'm an architect) and after we broke up
I did a lot of things that he said I couldn't
because I wasn't 'enough' but still I want to tell
him that I did them and happily hug him and
kissing him and staying together just chatting
and watching anime as we did when we first
met. I can't hate him, I can't forget what we
dated and I can't go on. I keep thinking about
how much he made me feel bad but I can't
forget the beautiful times that we spent
together walking along the lake and going
home, cooking for him and see his smile or
making jokes that only us can understand. I
miss him and I don't know what to do.
Sorry for this long message, do you have any
suggestions on how I can get over him?


Love

I have been planning a trip with my bf and his friends since past some time but he wasn’t able to leave his house due to some reason so we didn’t go. Now today he is going out on a trip with his friends without me cause the issues at his home are resolved but now I cannot go. So I told him this he said he feels sorry for not considering my feelings and making a plan he will not repeat it again. But he is going on the trip which is making me feel bad. I want to know if  he is right or not? 

Boyfriend

So I have been in a relationship with a boy since the past 3 months. It was going smooth until I figured out that the guy is too clingy and immatured. I mean,it might sound sweet but he is always talking about things like marriage ,love and never tried to rationalize things. Whenever I try to make him understand that marriage is a big thing and we really need to be practical about such a big thing in life. He starts to doubt my loyalty. In short, he is always acting immatured and clingy . He always craves for attention all the time. I have a life outside this relationship and he fails to understand that I need to balance both. He is too needy and demanding to a point that I have started to feel annoyed about this whole thing . But at the same time,I don't want to hurt him. Please help.

So yesterday I posted about how I feel I have been suffering cause of my long distance relationship with my husband and I got replies saying why can’t I be with him, I can do video calls and so on..
I can be with him, I obviously do video call to him 
The reason I can’t live with him is because he lives in Kuwait and there is no family visa currently or visit visa. 
So we have to be in this kind of situation.
It’s going to be a year since we married now and 4 months since we met 👍🏻😅
This kinda hurts me the situation hurts me 
And once you get used to living with someone it kinda is a torture to sleep or live without them in person 
I really miss him and love him a lot 
I accept the situation I just lose myself in this process of waiting sometimes 😞🥹❤️

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